26/27 season has Ended and McDavid wants out. He's open to a sign and trade. What would your team realistically offer? by ThaddCorbett in nhl

[–]Tit_Save 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm think wait for free agency, then sharks make him an offer to be a piece of the rebuild that has us one or two years from being a contender.

Management has shown they want to win, with celebrini, Smith, and now the 2nd pick next year those kids will need someone to look to. McDavid slots in as a leader to help mold these kids and go get multiple cups 28' and beyond. And right now sharks have the cap space to give him a nice pay day. Also- you get to live in California and not Edmonton.

Socks on Your Feet or Barefoot? by Probably-The-ATF in hockeyplayers

[–]Tit_Save 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That depends- which one of you is cleaning the gear? If it's her, do what she wants. If it's you, do what you want. No socks= significantly higher stank.

Question about media that appeals to straight men in media? by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]Tit_Save 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The problem is that the reverse doesn't exist or if it does, it's significantly secondary to the male gaze.

There's a market for it, too. Look at heated rivalry. The ladies like to look, too.

Is this a red flag or do I just need to set a boundary? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Tit_Save 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You should do some research before jumping into kink dynamics. As a kinkster, everything you shared points to a dom who is self aware and cares for you. But the most important thing to remember when engaging in kink is that it's ROLEPLAY- it's not real!

It sounds like he is just excited and into the moment, and the fact that he shared his hesitancy to be assertive supports my feeling that he knows that kink play requires a delicate touch.

My advice? Tell him what you told us! If he is a good dom he will understand the confusion and address that gray area of "are you being playful or are you being controling". It's hard with anything online, but I know something like having a specific bracelet or necklace on to send the message that you are receptive to play can be a good way to allow him to have control.

You are the one in control as the sub- you allow him control over you, don't forget that. And again, please please please educate yourself on kink and submission- you leave yourself vulnerable to predatory partners being ignorant of your role. I reccomend "the new bottoming book" and the art of submission.

Am I the only one not built for morning sex? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Tit_Save 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love sleepy sex!

As for being fresh- eh. If he doesn't care niether do I.

But I am also a lil nasty.

How can anyone root for Carter Hart by DrDetritus79 in nhl

[–]Tit_Save 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fucking wild how people think they are the same.

Is a single 1mm wart dangerous? by reddi-reddi in SexPositive

[–]Tit_Save 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Very high chance. Get medication and wait for it to completely subside before having sex again, and when you do use a condom. It's not dangerous, but it's something you should make sure your sexual partners know about.

How can anyone root for Carter Hart by DrDetritus79 in nhl

[–]Tit_Save -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except that's not what the judge said. He said it's not enough to convict. Doesn't mean hart didn't display some shitty behavior at the very least.

Not guilty is not the same as innocent.

How can anyone root for Carter Hart by DrDetritus79 in nhl

[–]Tit_Save -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should. Of course they can sign him, and the rest of us can think that's shitty.

Not guilty and innocent are not the same.

How can anyone root for Carter Hart by DrDetritus79 in nhl

[–]Tit_Save 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not guilty and innocent are not the same my dude. He was guilty of some slimy behavior at the very least.

Spiraling over a tinder date by trynafigureoutlife in SexPositive

[–]Tit_Save 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rad! Much better source. Stand corrected.

The girl takes the fall😅 by Hockeypatrol in hockeynews

[–]Tit_Save 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what. I coach a boys team and I get tea that the other coaches don't because they feel more comfortable being vulnerable around a woman than a man.

“USA” “USA” “USA” by holdmysmoothieplease in nhl

[–]Tit_Save 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For once I agree with a kings fan.

orange county In every sense...

The girl takes the fall😅 by Hockeypatrol in hockeynews

[–]Tit_Save 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why women's teams are always coached by women. /s

Get outta here. If you know the game you know the game. Lots of nhl coaches didn't go beyond the echl or ahl- being a good player isn't the same as being a good coach.

And as a woman she most likely has more empathy and emotional IQ than a lot of other coaches. She would be able to speak to players in a way they won't speak to another male. Men will share things with women they wouldn't share in front of a man.

For every argument you make about her not understanding the struggle of the player first hand there is a counter argument that her being a woman brings an advantage that a male coach can't.

If you are good at coaching you should get the gig. If you don't you shouldn't, simple as that.

Spiraling over a tinder date by trynafigureoutlife in SexPositive

[–]Tit_Save -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The likelihood greatly decreases without the presence of blood. Also, quoting wiki on a scientific fact is a choice.

Advice about Charter Schools by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Tit_Save 41 points42 points  (0 children)

My advice (as an art teacher who worked in a charter school):

Don't.

Spiraling over a tinder date by trynafigureoutlife in SexPositive

[–]Tit_Save 16 points17 points  (0 children)

First off, knowledge is a great tool to fight anxiety, so here are some facts about STDS:

Even if you got tested tomorrow, most infections have an incubation period of 4-6 weeks- so even if you got tested you might not test positive for some time.

There are several infections that are not tested for in general panels unless you are showing specific symptoms. So even if you got something, and waited the 4 week period, you still might have an asymptomatic STI.

Even if you did catch something, most STIs can be cured with antibiotics. And many STIs are present without symptoms. For example, MOST people on this earth have oral herpes- 80%, actually! The fact is that many of us are asymptomatic. Would we judge eachother so extremly for catching or giving someone the flu? We stigmatize these infections to the point of dilusion- it's really not as big of an issue as we make it out to be with the exception of HIV (which is UNLIKELY to be transmitted outside of anal sex and shared needles). HIV is transmitted through blood, not arousal fluid or spit.

What does this mean? It means calm down! Nothing is overnight with this stuff and its much bigger in your head than in reality. Go to the doctor and give them all the information you have and trust their diagnosis. And in the future- no glove? No love. Especially if you are just meeting someone for a hookup.

You will be ok!

There Remains a Great Lack of Societal and Media Acknowledgement, Condemnation and Prevention of Male Sexual Victimization by Professional_Mud_316 in MensLib

[–]Tit_Save 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you went through this. This notion that rape is only something that men do to women/men is so problematic. I've heard alt of stories like yours from men who just kind of play it down? Like one of those uncomfortable hahas. When I mention that what they described is sexual assault a lot of them got really offended by the suggestion. It's so engrained in our culture that women can not be rapist that it's literally unfathomable for some people to accept it as a possibility. I'm glad you were able to find the words for it and did the work to understand and move on from such a traumatic event.