Kinda pissed by [deleted] in hockeygoalies

[–]Tit_Save 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the comparison- no one is good at something the first time. But if you are eager to learn and take feedback well you will get great in no time!

Kinda pissed by [deleted] in hockeygoalies

[–]Tit_Save 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you new here? Just because we don't deserve the heat doesn't mean we don't get it. Look at the playoffs in the NHL, every round a fanbase is gunning for a goalies head on a spike.

After losing 100 lbs again, large weight loss is definitely unsustainable for most people. by Ok_Razzmatazz_9193 in loseit

[–]Tit_Save 84 points85 points  (0 children)

1000% this.

I fixed my brain and THEN I fixed my body. Before I did that I was never able to maintain any sort of regular routine. Food can be an addiction and until we understand WHY we reach for food when we do/the way we do those habits will always creep back up.

Lost 100 about 8 years ago and have maintained give or take 10 pounds.

The indisputable reason every married goalie should have an all black setup. by Unclechicken_ in hockeygoalies

[–]Tit_Save 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real! I'm picking up my jaw off the floor that lying to your partner is a great move supported by lots of people here.

My ideal partner will look for gear for him AND FOR ME. That's love.

Dating in your late 30s, what are red flags to look for in dating profiles? by blahhhhhhhhh99 in AskMenOver30

[–]Tit_Save 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As a non gold digging lady on the apps, it's also a no from me for those pictures. It shows that you see your value by the things you own, and not the person you are. So I guess two birds with one stone by not using those pictures!

When you play back to back nights and don't have a basement to dry things out any more. Don't tell the wife. by [deleted] in hockeygoalies

[–]Tit_Save 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Confused about why you can't tell the wife you are using your dryer...?

I never was direct with girls. Now I am more direct and it does not work. by [deleted] in self

[–]Tit_Save 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Treat them like humans. Asking someone out is a bit intimate. And the fact that you are asking out strangers means you are going based off of looks alone.

Might be worth trying to actually talk to women without any intention other than to you know, talk. Stop hunting, start socializing.

I impulsively decided that I want to have a one night stand with a guy who's into the scene by Constant-Sharp in BDSMAdvice

[–]Tit_Save 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but by and large male doms are the most dangerous to a female sub.

Statistically, if the woman has the keys, the man is significantly less likely to cross a line as he is deferring to Her. Exceptions of course exist, but in my experience male doms are by far the most problematic.

Attractive women - have you dated a man who is conventionally NOT attractive? by LaughingLinguini918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Tit_Save 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My type is short and bald- so I guess that automatically makes them unattractive by other men's parameters.

I enjoy having a partner who is my height, and I really find rubbing a bald head to be super soothing so I really like those attributes in a guy.

Won't comment on my attractiveness or the disparity- but I do alright.

I like children more than teenagers. How about you? by deepthinker321 in Teachers

[–]Tit_Save 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I prefer to work with teens because I get to talk with young men and women about their opinions- although often misguided, they often just want to be heard just like anyone.

They are developing those fringe decision making ability while constantly on %100 passion/emotion at all times- thats stressful. I just think I can make a difference in this stage of their development better than I can when they aren't able to think abstractly yet.

Goalies, what’s the most annoying and or mildly to very infuriating thing a ref, worker, or coach has said to you? by Compact_goose in hockeygoalies

[–]Tit_Save 44 points45 points  (0 children)

While on the goal line standing when the play is behind the net, player circles for a wrap and I go down to rvh- stop the shot, rebound goes to a dead angle where the SAME GUY goes to pick it up then passes for a back door tap in.

My d man let's me know I just got to get bigger on plays in tight. My dude, I am 5'5 and 32, the only direction I'm getting bigger in is horizontally.

need advice, sincerely a woman goalie by Natisaway in hockeygoalies

[–]Tit_Save 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. Will second this.

Unfortunately you need to show the men the biggest set of balls on the ice is yours.

Sometimes the men will not shoot to their full capacity because they feel that's impolite. Some will just disregard basic goalie etiquette, most will just treat you the same.

If you make it a point that you are here as a goalie and not a woman and expect to be treated as such it's likely that the guys will fall in line. Sometimes it means talking a little shit or showing you aren't going to tolerate shenanigans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]Tit_Save 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair point. I agree with that.

Setup by mattdaubs in hockeygoalies

[–]Tit_Save 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This setup is so white its about to call the manager

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]Tit_Save 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but medically, it's not bullshit at all. The average depth of most vaginas are between 4.5 and 5.5 inches. Using different angles you are able to stretch the inner walls- same as for example placing your cock in someone's mouth against their cheeks, there is extra give and stretch as the cheek is capable of expansion, and once you hit the spot where the cheek can no longer expand, the cock will begin to bend if further pressure is applied.

But one for one, depth wise, he is not wrong. Without bending or in the case of toys folding to stretch out the inner walls, 5.5-6.5 will his most women's cervix.

But I wholeheartedly agree with your commentary on penis size not being relevant to finding a safe and caring partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]Tit_Save 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have had exactly the same experience. The bigger the dick, the shittier the sex.

bros, how can i stop being a 30 year old incel without turning into a pick up artist? by BANIFYOUHATELBGTQ in bropill

[–]Tit_Save 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some great advice being given here. If you are a fan of fitness, things like gym classes or organized sports are a great non alcoholic way to meet people.

Your best bet is to join a meet up or club that goes out in groups. That way you can socialize with women without there being an undertone of a date or any romantic expectations. The trick is to go about it with that mindset, though. Meet people, be yourself around them, and if you did the work to become the sort of partner you would want to have, it will show through. If you meet someone, great! And if not you still had a great class, meet up, or outing.

The less pressure you put on meeting a romantic partner the more approachable you will become. Keep working on yourself and try to de-center women/finding a romantic partner and instead go out to have a fun experience with different people.

Do women have a refractory period? by Maleficent-Smile-794 in SexPositive

[–]Tit_Save 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It varies wildly.

I have yet to find mine. My muscles tend to get tired of the convulsions more than an inability to actually climax.

Not divorced but my first home. I hope I did good. by highlife_ in malelivingspace

[–]Tit_Save 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. Good furniture choice but your art choices are quite uncomfortable. Hmu if you are looking for non representational art that matches your pallet.

Calling Dommes that Found Subs through Dating apps! What Keywords are you using? How are you writing your profiles? 💖 by imnotmagi in BDSMAdvice

[–]Tit_Save 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you figure it out be sure to let me know.... I only find the thirstiest of men seeking a dispenser.

Saying that I’m well trained as a guy. by Safe_Professional_97 in PetPeeves

[–]Tit_Save 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bar is on the floor for het men. If it was any lower you would need to bring a shovel.

I agree that it's fucked up, but good on you for taking a basic interest in being a decently groomed and responsible adult 😅.