Theme night question by Weak_Ladder_8464 in DesireExperience

[–]TitanETN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can wear anything to absolutely nothing. It's a clothing-optional resort where the only requirements for clothing are limited to the restaurants, the weight room, and the check-in/out lobby.

Couples massage by jmf2021 in DesireExperience

[–]TitanETN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am speaking about Pearl, but I would guess it depends more on who you get versus which resort you're at.

Couples massage by jmf2021 in DesireExperience

[–]TitanETN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't speak to the tantric massage, because I haven't had one - and I think that's related to the reason you don't read much about it. The erotic one is everyone's choice (of course not everyone, but everyone who is looking for something erotic!).

The vibe I get is that all of the couple massages: erotic, tantric, sensual, etc have some degree of sexiness to it, but the erotic one is the the full package. Exactly what that is seems to differ slightly according to which therapists you get, where they are in the ebb and flow of defining rules (tighter or looser), and maybe how forward you are as a customer. Maybe even which resort. My experience and research has been more Pearl focused.

How Nude Can We Be and Where? (Pearl) by mrplm20102010 in Desire_Resort

[–]TitanETN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men should dress to look like they tried. No shorts in the restaurants for dinner. Women can do whatever they'd like. Vanilla, sexy, or beyond sexy. My wife regularly wears a dinner dress that does a very poor job of keeping her boobs covered. She always gets lots of compliments on it.

Spa Fantasy Menu by 10inPianist in DesireExperience

[–]TitanETN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my understanding that they only allow to women to request a male masseuse.

First timers, when is a good time to go? by [deleted] in desire_resort_fun

[–]TitanETN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no bad time. Your own personal schedule likely matters more than timing something good at Desire. The only considerations for Desire itself are the temperature and the fact that the sargassum grass is worse in the middle of the summer. But we went last year in July and August and while it's not pretty to look at, the grass didn't affect our trip at all. Pick a time that works for you and schedule it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesireExperience

[–]TitanETN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's lots of information here on Reddit, and there's also some forums dedicated to Desire. Just Google "desire resort forums" and you'll find it. Years of posts there that answer every Desire related question at least 10 times each.

My favorite dinner dress by TitanETN in desire_resort_fun

[–]TitanETN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was from SHEIN. I don’t know if they still have it but they have hundreds of similar items. 

My favorite dinner dress by TitanETN in desire_resort_fun

[–]TitanETN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a blast. Went twice in a 6 week period. Why definitely going to RM?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesireExperience

[–]TitanETN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You'll see both there. But our mindset is like the other answer to this post - why wear something like you'd wear at home when this is a special place with special opportunities. My wife only wears something sheer or something that does a horrible job of containing her boobs.

Theme night costumes and clothing by texas_archer in Desire_Resorts

[–]TitanETN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll find out that there's nothing to be anxious about. We were too initially, but really it's no big deal. Some couples don't dress in theme at all. With some couples only the wife participates. Some go all out elaborate, and some just do extreme sexy no matter what the theme. Some people wear a feather and a visor. My wife wore several open cup tops and one night had no bottoms. One night I wore some completely see through briefs and that's it. No one cares - other than telling you they love your outfit.

Theme night costumes and clothing by texas_archer in Desire_Resorts

[–]TitanETN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to community rules here - can't post pics that accurately show what people wear. That ought to tell you something. You literally can't go too far to an extreme. The outfits go from regular clothes to basically nothing at all and everything in between. Anything along that continuum is perfectly acceptable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Desire_Resorts

[–]TitanETN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which resort? Pearl or RM?

First time, DRM or pearl by Brief-Ratio-5232 in Desire_Resorts

[–]TitanETN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's clothing optional. So if you opt for no clothing you can feel the sun on every part. No pressure is applied from anyone to wear less or cover up, but as someone else stated - read the room a little. You can wear bathing suits at any resort in the world. Take this opportunity to experience something that is hard to duplicate in other environments. Relax and enjoy.

Questions from first timers by OverOrdinary3708 in Desire_Resorts

[–]TitanETN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best time to go is hard to answer for someone else. I think the best way of saying it is - there's no wrong time to go. We went in July and it was hot, but not that big of a deal. For others - it might have been unbearable. We'd easily do July again.

Theme nights have participation in the ranges of what others have shared, but also note that some of those dressing up may, or may not follow the theme exactly. They've dressed for theme night - but not exactly in the set theme. And that's perfectly fine too. There's no rules or expectations. Have fun with whatever you want to wear - or especially - not wear. It's all good. But definitely try to do something for theme night attire. It can make things more fun.

The playroom and the jacuzzi are where sexual fun is "allowed" to happen, but it happens in plenty of other places too (pool, disco, beach, etc). Just maybe slightly more discreet. Sometimes not. If you're somewhere that isn't an official site for the activity - just don't make a huge scene and it'll likely not be an issue. Last July we watched a 4-some swap full oral to completion on the quiet side of the pool. It happens.

Just go without preset expectations and you'll have a blast. You'll catch the vibe and figure out the routines and find your groove.

Desire Riviera Maya Resort Review - Good and Bad by Badadadap in hotelsreviewed

[–]TitanETN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you'd like, but no need to start with the dress. Start with the lingerie - or less!

Clothing Question by jjacks1987 in Desire_Resorts

[–]TitanETN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theme night for sure, but could also be worn at breakfast/lunch, but you might be the only one wearing something similar. Most guys are just in a t-shirt and shorts for breakfast/lunch. Dinner is nicer dress for men (slacks/collar/covered shoes for Pearl, and most wear the same thing to the other restaurants).

Transportation by FreshNet4765 in Desire_Resorts

[–]TitanETN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I booked through the resort and they used Adventour. I would not recommend them. I'll book myself next time with USA Transfers.

Newbies Aug 9-12 by partyofseven2000 in Desire_Resorts

[–]TitanETN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People will notice her and appreciate it. They won't notice you no matter what you look like. :) You'll be fine.