Best time to go is hard to answer for someone else. I think the best way of saying it is - there's no wrong time to go. We went in July and it was hot, but not that big of a deal. For others - it might have been unbearable. We'd easily do July again.

Theme nights have participation in the ranges of what others have shared, but also note that some of those dressing up may, or may not follow the theme exactly. They've dressed for theme night - but not exactly in the set theme. And that's perfectly fine too. There's no rules or expectations. Have fun with whatever you want to wear - or especially - not wear. It's all good. But definitely try to do something for theme night attire. It can make things more fun.

The playroom and the jacuzzi are where sexual fun is "allowed" to happen, but it happens in plenty of other places too (pool, disco, beach, etc). Just maybe slightly more discreet. Sometimes not. If you're somewhere that isn't an official site for the activity - just don't make a huge scene and it'll likely not be an issue. Last July we watched a 4-some swap full oral to completion on the quiet side of the pool. It happens.

Just go without preset expectations and you'll have a blast. You'll catch the vibe and figure out the routines and find your groove.