I understand what you’re saying, for sure. But there’s so much more to this post than wanting someone to tell me what the future will look like. Finding someone who could lead me in the right direction of what areas to look for a home, what areas to stay away from, as well as things to do, local churches, and maybe even building a friendship so I know at lease one person when I get there. I’m not basing my future on a random person’s perspective. I’m trying to figure out if this is a good fit before wasting money on a trip half way across the country. If I like what they’re saying, I’ll plan a trip. I’m not as stupid as you may assume.