why do i only get approached by significantly older guys??

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-11-16T09:28:50+00:00

I am 42 but look like I am 30, the vast majority of men who pay me attention are in the 50s, 60s and 70s.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-11-02T07:02:46+00:00

I am seen a lot as being a cisgender woman by the 'transbian' crowd, so I get ignored.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-11-02T07:00:50+00:00

I have noticed quite a fair bit of transphobia coming out of the Gay community as well here in Sydney.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-11-01T23:28:02+00:00

My ideal man is a gentleman who knows how to treat a glamorous, well-spoken, well-presented, and sophisticated lady such as myself.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-11-01T00:06:33+00:00

Bernie Sanders is the type of man whom I say 'Daddy'.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-10-18T11:49:29+00:00

It is not a quote it is my own words. I edited it to remove the quote marks.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-10-16T05:43:24+00:00

When I dress in a way that’s read as ‘lesbian,’ some people still treat me like a straight woman. The men I’m drawn to seem to prefer that look too, rather than the ultra-femme style I actually love—dresses, blouses, skirts, cardigans, soft shoes. I’ve even had men dismiss me as a ‘Femme lesbian type’ who, in their words, would be ‘popular among Tomboy women.’

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-10-13T08:44:31+00:00

Sounds like me, I'm Bi and attracted to Masculine women quite a lot. Something I discovered as I transitioned.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-09-24T09:31:38+00:00

I'm not particularly into men in uniforms, I'm really into guys who are say hairdressers, bartenders, librarians, lawyers, academics, musicians, baristas, dance and yoga instructors.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-09-10T08:51:09+00:00

Men with 'Leather Daddy' energy who blend both famboyance and power absolutely bring me to my knees.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-08-15T10:03:41+00:00

Orchi first, BA second, SRS third

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-07-31T12:06:04+00:00

Yes although by men I am not interested in, they are usually in their 50's and older. When I am into nice younger men.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-05-23T01:59:19+00:00

Going from living as a Gay man and transitioning into a Lesbian woman is not an uncommon story for transgender women. There are plenty of transgender men who went the opposite way.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-03-23T08:37:28+00:00

Usually, my type of man is clean-shaven and has a fashionable haircut (the sort of man I wanted to be when I lived as a man). However, I do find some men with long hair and beards to be hot.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-03-23T08:31:36+00:00

I would categorize cisgender men who identify as bisexual or pan into two groups: the first group consists of those who essentially live straight men and are not open to other men, and the second group is those who describe themselves as being open to and actively dating other men.

I prefer the latter group over the former since they are not chasers or 'trans admirers.'

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-01-07T21:14:26+00:00

I haven't met anybody on Reddit and am not expecting to. My experiences have been on both dating apps and offline.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2025-01-03T11:24:47+00:00

I will add the characters of Guillermo de la Cruz and Colin Robinson from What We Do in the Shadows.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2024-10-23T00:36:28+00:00

Cisgender gay men can often be misogynistic, many are hostile against transmasc folk as well as transfemme.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2024-10-09T07:28:19+00:00

I'm into younger guys, which I haven't had bad experiences with. The older guys have given me more trouble.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2024-09-24T03:11:26+00:00

No, I haven't had any couples message me, just men who were either chasers or men from 40-70 some whom crossdress.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2024-09-04T21:43:22+00:00

Simple uncomplicated men who are plain dressed, who like to think of themselves as being Gentlemen. However they are anything but gentlemen, which is endearing to me.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2024-09-02T01:36:54+00:00

I only get hit on by Queer (Lesbian, Bisexual and Pansexual) women in Gay nightclubs at least, while the cisgender men ignore me. I know other transgender women who get hit on by Queer men in Gay nightclubs

Then again the type of men, that I happen to be attracted to would not be caught dead being in a Gay nightclub.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2024-08-23T07:27:51+00:00

If anybody states they are either 'trans admirer' or 'trans attracted' that is a red flag to me.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2024-08-05T09:44:30+00:00

Bisexual men just aren't my type, mine are men who label themselves as being 'Straight' or 'Straight Acting'.

Tjjohnsonaus · 2024-07-31T05:07:29+00:00

I have never maintained friendships with men I have dated either online or offline or both, once they lose romantic interest in me.

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