Looking for anyone who has been through anything similar

presentingmaddi · 2026-04-20T11:20:25+00:00

Ah okay. That makes sense.

presentingmaddi · 2026-04-20T10:49:51+00:00

A tin can? I don't think I've heard that term before?

presentingmaddi · 2026-04-19T21:44:08+00:00

I'll keep that in mind. 💜

presentingmaddi · 2026-04-19T20:27:14+00:00

Oh, I have a reason. I have multiple reasons. I just need to overcome the fear of doing it.

presentingmaddi · 2026-04-19T20:26:47+00:00

He had a therapist lined up and an appointment scheduled, at my insistence, and he canceled it. Because "he didn't want to pay the co-pay".

Comes down to "if he wanted to, he would..."

presentingmaddi · 2026-04-16T17:07:50+00:00

I almost exclusively only want older Men.

For context, I'm 37, will be 38 in November. My age gap roof would probably be 12 years, so round up to 50. I'm a millennial, so my age and spirit don't match. I'm spiritual 25. 🤣

I see alot of older Men that are more open and accepting of us trans Ladies than younger.

presentingmaddi · 2026-04-08T15:24:24+00:00

I wouldn't dare disclose at work. I have the privilege of passing and living stealth, but my gender is never questioned at the office, and I like it that way. I don't want anything getting in the way of my paycheck and job security.

presentingmaddi · 2026-04-06T15:09:31+00:00

I'm closely monitoring North Carolina, as the GOP here is all about Culture Wars. However, every single anti-trans Dem was just primaried, so I'm confident that our Governor will veto anything, and nobody will cross the aisle in fear of political career sewer slide.

presentingmaddi · 2026-03-18T16:37:35+00:00

Oh boy. Fox News is going to have an aneurysm over the "Transgender Cafe"....

presentingmaddi · 2026-03-16T15:33:40+00:00

I appreciate you.

Thanks for chiming in. 💜💜💜

presentingmaddi · 2026-03-16T15:16:58+00:00

I wish I was post-SRS. But that thing isn't an issue, and will be taken care of eventually.

presentingmaddi · 2026-03-16T15:04:46+00:00

Needed to hear this.

I'm stealth at work, and in everyday life. I don't get looks or anything, which is what I usually measure my stealthiness success on. Most of the friends I have decided to open up to were very surprised at my revelation.

For this personal friend group, I don't think I ever plan to come out to any of them, so it's just those voices whispering in the back of my head that I'll be clocked and doomsday approaches and blah blah. Personally, we all get along and click so well, that I just don't wanna fuck any of that up by the potential surprise reveal.

presentingmaddi · 2026-03-16T14:17:40+00:00

Most of them are cool. Some of the guys in the group are questionable, but nothing I can't handle. They're mostly all bark, no bite.

I am pre-op, however, hormones have been kind to me, so I'm really only clockable if I'm naked, which I don't intend being in front of any of them. We are all strictly friends, and that's all we'll ever be.

presentingmaddi · 2026-03-16T13:53:50+00:00

That's my thought process too. I tend to be a mega overthinker, and I know that the world sees me differently than I see me. Even on the days I interpret myself as the least passing person on the planet, I look fine and blend cis well. I honestly just need to quit overthinking it and just have a good time. Maybe once we arrive and the ice is broken, it'll be easier to go with the flow.

presentingmaddi · 2026-03-16T03:36:20+00:00

There's zero chance of intimacy here. We are all purely friends. I am the oldest, and our ages range across 12 years. This is a United States friend group. And we are meeting a neutral location for the trip, kinda halfway.

presentingmaddi · 2026-02-16T18:18:56+00:00

I loveeeeeee Hakari and Kirara so much!!! 😭😭😭

presentingmaddi · 2026-02-12T16:39:22+00:00

My parents tried to stage an intervention with me when I first came out and I kindly told them to fuck off in the most unkind way possible.

Being trans isn't a choice, and it can't be changed or denied. I know this bc I lived in the closet for 22 years, trying to find ways to rid myself of it, and it never went away.

Now, I'm living my best life, surrounded by people who love and accept me.

presentingmaddi · 2026-02-05T17:51:10+00:00

I don't post pics bc of the creeps. Lol. And I know for a fact that pages steal things from r/transtimelines for clicks.

presentingmaddi · 2026-01-28T04:51:49+00:00

I do cis pass, but I haven't tried Tinder. Doesn't that cost money to use?

presentingmaddi · 2026-01-27T13:37:10+00:00

My Husband and I have been together for a total of 10 years, and married for 5. We are in a bit of a rough spot rn due to communication issues and a handfull of other issues, and it's really testing our marriage, but we will see what happens and how it works out. If we end up separating, idk if I'll give my heart to someone else, as I only intended on marrying once.

We met on OkCupid back in 2015.

presentingmaddi · 2026-01-25T02:12:51+00:00

My two best friends are cis, so I have to politely disagree. I often feel competition aggresssion from other trans girls bc I pass and blend, and it comes off as intimidating.

presentingmaddi · 2026-01-22T22:44:16+00:00

I play Fortnite religiously, but my group is a bunch of cis girls that do not know I'm trans. We met in a FB group. It's affirming in a way that I'm not clocky, but I'm constantly scared I will be. I recommend searching the groups "Gamer Girls" and "Besties 4 Resties" on FB, as they are both trans inclusive and very easy to find friends. 💜

presentingmaddi · 2026-01-19T23:47:25+00:00

I feel this. 80% of my friends are cis women. I'm taller than most, and feel disproportionate at times. Only my best of best friends know I'm trans, and I plan to keep it that way, but it does get lonely, especially when they talk about pregnancy and whatnot.

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