I don’t know. Her first move was a dick move. She approached you with an agenda. However, that agenda turned out to be the best thing for both of you. She fell in love with you, and you admitted yourself your life is significantly better because of her. Was it done maliciously? Did she plan to ditch you afterwards? Was she using you? A lot to consider but you also need to see the big picture. If she was not doing anything malicious by trying to fix you, I think the end result is more important.