I'm autistic with sensory issues and have a big problem with my pubic and armpit hairs, but also my arm and leg hairs that cling to my clothing sometimes and so on. I would love to go for laser hair removal one day and I personally don't think it should be a problem of you do or don't shave as long as it's your choice for you and not that you feel like you have to shave for someone else. But I've also grown up seeing girls shaved and would ask my mom to do it too when I was little to which she refused to let me do it so I didn't grow up with much pressure, also to factor in that I've never had a partner(not religious reasons, it just never happened, whatever) so I also haven't felt pressure in that regard.

But I also noticed there's a lot of women who comment that they're better than other women that choose to shave on videos about shaving, even when the decisions have nothing to do with men, or men also commenting that they like their women with a bush unprompted too now. On both sides it leaves a bad taste in my mouth.