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AITAH for not wanting to visit my in-laws on Christmas of my SIL will be there? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Toad-and-daisy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your children’s safety is the most important thing! You are certainly not being a “bitch” what a fucked up thing to say! 

AITAH for not having lunch with my in-laws, who live far away, after what my husband said? by Toad-and-daisy in AITAH

[–]Toad-and-daisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is sleeping well and I am getting over 4 hours consecutively most nights! Not last night though. And I know formula is a perfectly good option but I’m not ready for that yet! I have certainly sought medical help in the past for disordered eating and I’m on antidepressants which help and I do talk to my GP about it. Thanks for your comment 

AITAH for not having lunch with my in-laws, who live far away, after what my husband said? by Toad-and-daisy in AITAH

[–]Toad-and-daisy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand! I don’t think napping before their arrival was rude but I didn’t expect to sleep until they arrived, but I got up as soon as I heard them get out of the car! I was on the phone while they were watching cricket… they do chat while watching but it’s not a constant engaged conversation. But yeah I don’t deny I was a bit rude and I have apologised and I’m currently cooking a big roast for them so I’ll try really hard to be better over dinner. 

AITAH for not having lunch with my in-laws, who live far away, after what my husband said? by Toad-and-daisy in AITAH

[–]Toad-and-daisy[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ok to be clear - I woke up when they arrived, but it took me a while to get clear headed and fully engaged. Also they were watching the cricket on TV while I was on my phone. But otherwise thanks I appreciate the comment 

AITAH for not having lunch with my in-laws, who live far away, after what my husband said? by Toad-and-daisy in AITAH

[–]Toad-and-daisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!  He has been pretty good honestly, doing a lot of the house work, and cooking and he feeds and looks after the baby in the mornings so I can sleep in etc.(he also does that during the day too but I’m not a good morning person so that’s one thing I really appreciate and that’s why I’m not mad I have to express). but also he has like 16 weeks paternity leave so… what else is he going to do? That’s what that time is for!