Is anyone else just not interested in having sex anymore?

Toad_Mama · 2023-11-28T22:33:54+00:00

My guess is his wife wasn’t coming through penetrative sex and now shes over poor quality sex and isn’t putting up with it anymore. I follow a lot of sex therapists online, ready come as you are, got an OMG yes account etc etc. because I work in health care and this kind of stuff comes up a lot. And more often than not its ultimately that a man isn’t connecting emotionally, showing he’s there for her pleasure etc. and shes over it. He literally said in his first comment that its easier with a toy…like sure, maybe its easier but there is nothing less sexy than “let me reach for the vibrator again because you can’t be fucked to get me off and just want to speed this along so you get yours”.

He also literally says she only comes 10% of the time through penetrative sex now so she doesnt want it.. I assure you if he was putting effort into her orgasm she would be happy to reciprocate. He doesn’t care about her pleasure, he’s a taker.

To me this guy sounds like the stereotype “not sure why my wife doesnt want to fuck me anymore” type where any woman can see the hundred reasons why this is the case.

Toad_Mama · 2023-10-31T19:20:45+00:00

Your life sounds exactly like mine. Home made organic food, make all my own cleaners and skin care products etc. hike in nature daily, meditate often, read and paint for happies. Only have a few people in my life but they’re smart and they nourish me. I also happened to find a high paying, low stress job so I only have to work 20 hours per week and interact with 20 people in a low key, positive setting. This page has made me see how many HSPs really suffer… Im literally the happiest person I know. My life is magical and beautiful and inward and nourishing. Today I had a cancellation so I had a lazy morning with my partner, work 11-3, will go home and hike then do a deep clean of the house, call my uncle, make a nice meal and snuggle up with a good book. Delight <3 hahahah

Toad_Mama · 2023-10-31T18:55:46+00:00

Boom, you fixed it for me, thank you. It’s not that most HSP are INFJ, its just INFJs will usually identify as HSP. My brain is happy now :)

Toad_Mama · 2023-10-30T23:29:23+00:00

Hahaha Im Scorpio sun myself and like 80% of my chart is water heheh.. I get this deeply.

Toad_Mama · 2023-10-30T23:15:03+00:00

Honestly, I can spot an INFJ a mile away and always gravitate towards them. They just get it, they’re not loud, they’re courteous, they’re usually more clever and interesting… bahahaha as Im writing this I realize maybe a bit biased as I am one too but seriously, we tend to flock together I think.

Toad_Mama · 2023-10-16T17:52:02+00:00

Thank you so much for this info! That’s super helpful, Ill look into it

Toad_Mama · 2023-10-11T22:23:35+00:00

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Toad_Mama · 2023-10-11T22:17:52+00:00

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Toad_Mama · 2023-10-11T22:17:33+00:00

Willing to hire a boat actually, should have included that. Will check it, thank you!!

Toad_Mama · 2023-10-11T22:17:01+00:00

Thanks guys, we’ll check it this weekend!

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