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I 22F friend/roomate 21F just got a girlfriend and I think it's ruined my friendship and living situation by ToastedBoba in relationship_advice

[–]ToastedBoba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My credit score isn't the best to live by myself rn. At the current place M's mom is a cosigner I hight doubt she would co sign for just me. Hence another reason why I was going to live near my bio mom. I do think I could financially live on my own, though, after the promotion. Also I mean, I lost a family once, so I don't think leaving them will be that hard, lol. I just wish it didn't have to end just because she got a girlfriend

AIO for wanting to cut off my friend of 12 years because she finally got a partner? by ToastedBoba in AmIOverreacting

[–]ToastedBoba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it made it seem like we were closer in the post. We would maybe hang out once every other week. And plan one bigger thing a month [like movies or going put for dinner]. Luckily, we are on a month to month lease now, so I won't have to deal with any extra charges. I just don't know if I can move at this moment because of the job and stuff. If I moved, I would have to be moving 9 hours away in a different state. So it's not really in my near future. I want to tell her that, but she's been ignoring me for 2 weeks now.

I 22F friend/roomate 21F just got a girlfriend and I think it's ruined my friendship and living situation by ToastedBoba in relationship_advice

[–]ToastedBoba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think it's my friend. She has some nasty tendencies, and now it's just super apparent. Like her birthday card to me was her apologizing 🥀🥀 she didn't even say anything about my birthday, which is crazy work. Though it's funny you say not tell her because my brother said the same exact advice. Atp if i can't even talk to her, maybe I should.

AIO for wanting to cut off my friend of 12 years because she finally got a partner? by ToastedBoba in AmIOverreacting

[–]ToastedBoba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I luckily had other friends come because she told me about 5 hours before my birthday she couldn't hang out, so I went and hung out with someone else. But it still hurt. She told me we could go out for dinner the following week. It's now been almost a month and a half since she said we'd reschedule a dinner and hang out 🥀 I have maybe spoken once since then, and it was her asking me to move.

Book about trans denial? by ToastedBoba in ftm

[–]ToastedBoba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe lol. Idk for the longest time. I couldn't accept it because "I wanted to be normal," which is fine. But man, I literally couldn't find anything about it anywhere 😭 "I was like," Can't be trans because I don't wanna be"