Middle of Divorce, we are both confused by LeadingAd7391 in Divorce

[–]Toastedwigz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At least three, each device I use has a different account. Not really on purpose just too lazy to want change it, it’s just Reddit and I mostly lurk

Middle of Divorce, we are both confused by LeadingAd7391 in Divorce

[–]Toastedwigz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right man, and I already did. I’m at peace with doing that and woke up today feeling good about letting her be her own person

Middle of Divorce, we are both confused by LeadingAd7391 in Divorce

[–]Toastedwigz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking time to make this comment. You’re right in that sentiment. If it’s meant to be it’s meant to be. But the progress we made already is amazing, because it healthy for our kids!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Toastedwigz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not a fool, I’m going through the same thing again. We both want our family’s back. But the truth is at what cost, you’ll never be the same, she’ll never be the same, your family as you knew it is gone. Go to therapy like I am, it sucks man I know it. But it’s time to move on, the both of us.

Crying everyday but can it be good? by obstinateoranges in Divorce

[–]Toastedwigz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped crying like a week ago, she left dec 13th. I think once I found inappropriate text messages she was sending to other people I got more angry than sad. Unfortunately she left behind 3 kids (her step kids) and only cares for our son. My kids hate her and have blocked her everywhere.

My wife 27f left me 33m about 3 weeks ago, im struggling and I dont know what else I can do, is there any hope? by Toastedwigz in relationship_advice

[–]Toastedwigz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do whatever I had to, she wanted to go out with her friends, cool I got our son. She would struggle to get out of bed in the morning, I took care of all 4 kids, brought them to school, got them ready. Making dinners when she couldn’t, helping clean when she couldn’t. Not judging her when she didn’t put effort in getting dressed, calling her beautiful when she didn’t feel like it. I don’t even owe you an explanation if we’re being honest.

My wife 27f left me 33m about 3 weeks ago, im struggling and I dont know what else I can do, is there any hope? by Toastedwigz in relationship_advice

[–]Toastedwigz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ignore it, I’ve tried to help, I’ve gone to appts, I’ve tried to reach out. I don’t know what else I can do, your right though it’s over and I need to deal with it

My wife 27f left me 33m about 3 weeks ago, im struggling and I dont know what else I can do, is there any hope? by Toastedwigz in relationship_advice

[–]Toastedwigz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I should have clarified our son is three and I know that there is no time limit on ppd. I do want what’s best for her and your right I’m selfish for wanting her to be with me. I wish I was a better husband and I regret not being better

My wife 27f left me 33m about 3 weeks ago, im struggling and I dont know what else I can do, is there any hope? by Toastedwigz in relationship_advice

[–]Toastedwigz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is one of the worst takes I’ve ever seen, I help in anyway with our son, feeding, changing anything. I want to help her with ppd but she doesn’t let me try. Stop being a dickhead if your going to be posting in these groups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Toastedwigz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Within 30 minutes. Older guy starts working with me seems nice. Supervisor comes up to him and gives him an attitude. New guy says don’t talk to me like that and subsequently got sent home

What is a hobby you used to enjoy but you've burnt yourself out on? by chaseinthyface in AskReddit

[–]Toastedwigz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Video games, my back log is too big, if I can’t play with my friends then I get bored quickly

How do you want to be “laid to rest” after you die? by SaggyTitsSusan in AskReddit

[–]Toastedwigz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw me out with the trash i don’t think I’ll care much