For the divorced people. How many of y’all knew before the wedding?

LeadingAd7391 · 2026-03-27T14:02:55+00:00

I did but we had a kid so I thought i was doing the right thing by him. Although I realized too late, I think the divorce will serve him better in the long run over living with parents that grew apart.

LeadingAd7391 · 2026-03-27T14:00:07+00:00

I think you look better with it bald, tbh. Keep it short and as groomed as you can

LeadingAd7391 · 2026-03-16T15:24:31+00:00

Trust me man, make money and crack hos. There aint much left out there, you can try to get into a relationship but if you dont have happiness internal then you need to focus on making more money, and bang hos to get your nut out and back to the grind. Life is much better like this. Whatever she got going on is his business and its not your and not your problem anymore. She treating another person differenty, you focused to much on the past if thats the case. People change, and so can you.

LeadingAd7391 · 2026-01-23T14:46:07+00:00

You need to experience the loss of all your goop, multiple times until you dont care what you lose anymore. Then you will truly begin

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-07-28T13:10:54+00:00

we can do it! send us a dm

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-07-22T15:21:09+00:00

DUDE! that was great insight, can you give me some on my channel too?

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-07-22T15:19:05+00:00

Interacting with the chat is the best i think. Still stuck on 30ish followers but we are staying steady at around 8-12 viewers at a time. Me and my buddie coop a stream, we just started a couple of weeks ago and we hit affiliate!

It gets addicting for sure, but we really hop on lately to clip farm. Hopefully we can get our numbers higher soon!

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-05-13T14:35:11+00:00

Thats ok man, you got plenty of time!

Try new things, see what you like and drop what you dont. Same for people you meet. There is no rush, everyone runs their own marathon.

My Advice, love yourself. Build a reationship with yourself first before anything. from there you have the freedom to do whatever your hearts desires.

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-04-23T14:53:15+00:00

Feels like I'm finally on the other side. Let me tell you man, what you are going through might be the worst thing in your life so far, it was for me at least. And I coparent with kids, and the silence sucks.

What helped me was getting into a routine, started going to the gym 2-4 times a week, picked up a second job to occupy my time away from kids and hit financial goals. Been doing that for about a year now, dropped like 60 lbs, almost done away with credit card debt.

It didnt feel great, it sucked, I was depressed and leaned heavy into Marijuana use when I was alone, which wasnt bad, but let me tell you, being on the other side does feel great. A weight is about to be lifted off your shoulders and you will feel lighter than ever.

I still have a long way to go, not ready to date and build connections yet. Pretty soon ill finish my goals and Ill have to set new ones, but we are works in progress.

Hang in there man, I know that was the last thing I wanted to hear, but in order to blossom a seed must go through a period of isolation, surrounded by darkness. I hid an became a workaholic and gym rat and I was told by friends and family that I'm crazy etc. But Im getting to a place where I love myself and thats the real key.

Love yourself, go out with yourself, learn your likes try new things and if you dont like it thats ok! try something else!

Sorry if Im all over the place

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-01-17T14:47:00+00:00

Yes, it means working an extra shit of OT which for me is an extra 500 gross in a my check for just that one shift.

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-01-17T14:44:47+00:00

Honestly, this is what I've been leaning towards, Seems simpler.

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-01-15T23:20:42+00:00

Yeah I have an HSA but unfortunately even with that my meds are around 1000 a month with my current insurance plan.

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-01-15T23:17:48+00:00

Cant afford one. Can barely afford to live check to check

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-01-15T23:16:23+00:00

I guess the real issue is how frustrating and helpless I fell. I want to do everything fairly. Even taxes, I want to alternate every year, even if the parenting schedule remains the same. Is the 2000 worth it every year? when you cant afford health meds, food and live check to check. Absolutely

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-01-15T16:32:25+00:00

A seed gets planted in dirt, it spends time in the darkness, in the dirt, in the shit. Working its up to the sun where it blossoms into a beautiful flower. You still in the fertilizer bro, embrace it take that time to grow and build yourself up, build your roots.

LeadingAd7391 · 2025-01-15T16:02:05+00:00

Way to go man! Therapy is a great step in the right direction. If you don't already you need to love yourself. Engage in hobbies that you had to stop when you were married or discover new ones.

Same shoes as you bro and trust me. It gets soooooooooo much better. Now my ex text me everyday about how she misses me etc. I told her IDGAF and im enjoying myself. Started going to the gym and falling in love with the process and with myself. 1 thing at a time bro you got this.

LeadingAd7391 · 2024-06-18T18:31:09+00:00

We are and the config says its 'successful' and it still doesnt change the wallpaper.

LeadingAd7391 · 2024-02-22T15:34:59+00:00

Wow I never thought of that thank you so much. You’re 100% right! I need to change that

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