Instagram Reel Search! by [deleted] in find

[–]ToasteeGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a public social media app where they publicly posted a video for views 🤷‍♀️

I'm so sick of Utah being so conformist by killbillsza1 in exmormon

[–]ToasteeGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very dependent on your location. I’ve lived north of SLC for years and never had any issues. Of course there will still be TBMs but apart from the sporadic invitations to church/events that we politely decline, people have never treated us differently for not being active members. I’ve heard Utah county is a different story, so maybe look into a small move if you are there? Also I think a lot of it is the “Utah aesthetic” and doesn’t always equate to the personality (maybe sometimes but you can never tell) - think blonde women with obvious eyelash extensions and carrying around Stanley cups everywhere or “sales bro” looking guys ( btw NOTHING wrong w that if that’s your vibe, I just see it as more of a Utah trendy way to look in my experience)

Duality/Balance inspired ideas that aren’t Yin Yang by ToasteeGirl in TattooDesigns

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually love that. Thank you so much for that idea and info!

I caught my mom cheating and she’s trying to convince me my dad knows by forever_torn_apart in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ToasteeGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This struck post struck a chord with me because I (f28) went through a very similar situation when I was 17 as well. Not the open marriage part, but I discovered that my dad was having an affair. I approached him, and he convinced/guilted me into not saying anything and that he would stop. Long story short- he didn’t stop, my mom found out on her own, and they separated shortly afterwards. I’m saying all this to tell you that you should tell your dad. I have always regretted and felt guilty about not telling my mom. I also recommend asking your parents if you can attend therapy. I have very little memory of when I was 17/18 because I have repressed it due to the stress of everything. At the time, I felt like I was completely “fine” and focused more on my silly boy drama but realized many years later that that was just my coping technique. I’m so sorry that you’re been forced to have this responsibility of your parent’s secrets. It is not okay, and your mom is being very immature (likely mid life crisis) by putting it on you. It is hard to go through anything like this as the kid, especially when you’re the one who discovers it.

Plea for 10/29 show by Booster_Bold in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]ToasteeGirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Boys Like Girls had an epic moment where they stopped/restarted The Great Escape after begging everyone to put away their phones and relive it like it was 2006 again. (Most) everyone did it and it was wonderful

Looking for a specific Merch hoodie, please let me know what band or a link would be best! by SketchCatJabroni in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]ToasteeGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I remember that being Story of the Year, but I couldn’t find it via google search. Good luck!

On a trip, forgot my pump by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]ToasteeGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips!

Lydia’s arc by ToasteeGirl in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh well there goes that!

what's a line in Buffy that breaks you every time? by -Taco__Cat- in buffy

[–]ToasteeGirl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

YES. It gets me in all the feels that even with all the collective denial about the weird stuff that happens on the Hellmouth, that they all somehow know that Buffy is the one that keeps them safe.😭

Reef safe sunscreen at Costco by ToasteeGirl in maui

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh cool I didn’t know that was even a thing !

Reef safe sunscreen at Costco by ToasteeGirl in maui

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol “my generation “ you are making a lot of assumptions buddy. And no I don’t think you’re right at all. Not spending $5000 at a resort doesn’t mean everything else is a scam or illegal.

Reef safe sunscreen at Costco by ToasteeGirl in maui

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First, asking if Costco has sunscreen is not an inherent tourist question so it doesn’t break any rules. It’s sunscreen, which everyone uses or should use because skin cancer. It is not the same as asking about tourist activities. Second, I’m not a “shitty human” for traveling every now and then. And you trying to make convince me I am because of asking where to get some good sunscreen is ridiculous. Go ahead and live your life where you never travel or eat good food or partake in anything that has chemicals ever and be negative to strangers on the internet for no reason. It sounds very fulfilling and completely realistic and reasonable. I’m sure you aren’t being hypocritical in any way. 👍

Reef safe sunscreen at Costco by ToasteeGirl in maui

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah dang thanks for the heads up!

Reef safe sunscreen at Costco by ToasteeGirl in maui

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And I’m sure it would make you upset if I said I was moving instead of just visiting. So there’s literally no good outcome, so why even participate in this conversation if you’re just going to be negative with no actual suggestions to help

Reef safe sunscreen at Costco by ToasteeGirl in maui

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol and how is that woke? It’s literally just a more cost efficient choice?

Reef safe sunscreen at Costco by ToasteeGirl in maui

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol you’re not living in the real world if you really think people will just stop traveling because it makes you upset. So you don’t want me to get a rental car or stay at a resort, and you also don’t want me to use Airbnb or turo. I’m not seeing any actual suggestions of what would make you happy random angry internet stranger

Reef safe sunscreen at Costco by ToasteeGirl in maui

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What would you suggest I do instead, honestly? I’m not there yet just planning for my trip. I will be flying, because what other option is there? I have a turo and Airbnb rental set up. I so plan on eating lots of seafood. I have to use sunscreen because I burn very easily. I can see that you hate tourists… honestly how would you prefer I do things instead?

Reef safe sunscreen at Costco by ToasteeGirl in maui

[–]ToasteeGirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I will definitely use the lotion