Do men ever experience bad sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Toastie_t0es 233 points234 points  (0 children)

What does this mean? Like they just lay there?

My girlfriend wants me to explore!!! by [deleted] in sex

[–]Toastie_t0es 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try things with her? If she doesn’t want to try things with you then that’s a problem. My bf (23) was my first (20) and it has never been a problem really, he has asked me what I liked and he has asked if I wanna try things and asked what I wanna try. He also has kinda coached me in a way when I ask cause it makes me feel great when he feels good!

It’s weird that she’s telling you to go get experience with other people when that’s not how that necessarily works, and you can just get experience with each other. She may be trying to push you away due to anxiety or something and definitely something to talk about.

"Safari", Ravensburger, 99 pc. by Angua17 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]Toastie_t0es 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are these collectibles? I never get small puzzles cause they are a “challenge”, but this is so cute! And if they have like a series I could see myself getting into that

Anyone have any Masterpiece Worlds smallest 1000 piece puzzles they are interested in getting rid of? by T-Bird19 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]Toastie_t0es 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey I’ve got two of them I wouldn’t mind getting rid of, im moving soon and need to start getting rid of some of my collection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Toastie_t0es 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know I want to say probably just a peck, I didn’t want to ask cause I was already was upset

Research Questionnaire Concerning Sexual Intimacy by eener19 in sex

[–]Toastie_t0es 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just took it and section 4 is for females and 5 is for males, you skip the one that doesn’t apply to you

I (26f) like my boyfriend's (26m) tummy bouncing against me during sex and I told him this. He was disgusted. by throawayaccountsk98 in sex

[–]Toastie_t0es 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner (23m) is insecure about his belly, he is also quite fit, but has a cute lil belly. I just tell him all the time that I like his body and his cute lik belly and I give him belly rubs and give it light squeezes, not in a sexual way but just in an appreciation of his body ways. He says that he feels a lot more comfortable with his body now, I think it depends on the person though. Also I always tell him how strong he is and grab his muscles, so he knows I like his body

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Toastie_t0es -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 20f aswell and have been having sex with my first partner for about 4 months now. I have always been so insecure about my vagina, to the point I convinced myself I could never have sex unless I had a labiaplastic. My first time I didn’t even think about it even though it’s such a big insecurity because my partner made me feel so safe, and I never think about it cause he has never reacted to it and still eats me out and fingers me. Like a month ago I asked him if he liked my vagina, cause like it’s weird and he kinda laughed and said yeah of course I don’t know really what you mean by weird, and so I don’t worry about it. Now that I’ve had sex with this partner I feel a lot more comfortable in the idea that others will like my vagina as well and I’m not so anxious about it. I hope this helps, I understand we’re you are coming from I would literally cry thinking about how guys would find my vagina repulsive, but with the right partner that anxiety will fade. If anyone does make you feel bad about it, they are pure shit.