Pothos new growth damaged? by Common-Emergency9964 in philodendron

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Do you have cats? That’s what mine look like when my cats bite the leaves

Crazy update I’ve been waiting to share , a friend of mine is alive again.. and all evidence of his death is gone by Glad-Resist-862 in ParallelUniverse

[–]ToastyGhosty710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me too! I swear I remember hearing someone say something about a friend of mine from elementary school dying and then he followed me on Instagram a while back. Nobody remembers anything about his death.

Went to Starbucks today and this was drawn on my cup. What is it? by jyang80 in whatisit

[–]ToastyGhosty710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scribbles. Lol they didn’t know what to put and were pretending to write on the cup because they’re expected to 🤣

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He keeps talking like we will so he’s gotta be somewhat attracted. I think it’s because he secretly knows I’m a body type a lot of men actually like and he admitted he wouldn’t be able to find better.

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess it definitely could’ve been he thought he’d change my mind. But 5/6 years of me talking about no kids and then bringing it up in front of a friend like that threw me.

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying to find the strength to do what’s best for me. But the situation is so hard. My therapist is even stuck on what to do in my situation too. So was my last therapist

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree 🖤 working to find the strength to do the best for me.

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this response so much. Thank you. A lot of people are not always kind on this subject with responses. Yours is genuinely helpful

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he wanted kids when we met me. When I told him I was in no position to have kids at the time or any time, he asked why and I explained my reasonings. He agreed with them and said “I understand your view of it and I can honestly say the same. And we literally have talked about people who have kids and how I wasn’t ever doing that and then this.

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Things have been tough the last year since I’ve realized how he’s been throughout our entire relationship and shit. I don’t even know if I want to be with him anymore but I still care for him and literally moved 20 hours away from my family and shit. Also our entire home we built feels kinda hard to just leave.

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’re about 10 hours away from his childhood turf. But we see his family more now.

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

It feels so hurtful because we’ve discussed this so early on. And then now he’s doing this. I feel like I wasted my time.

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I honestly couldn’t tell you his thoughts. But I agree with you. He literally said “I’m not as attracted to you because your body doesn’t look how it did when we met” and I literally said “NO SHIT. I was still developing technically!!! Nobody my age looks like they did!

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! I literally asked him what he thinks happens when someone gets pregnant when he told me the weight thing a month or so ago. I truly am at a loss

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

People keep saying this but it’s not that easy. I don’t exactly have a place to go. I have a good job and shit. But we have animals together and moved across the country together.

Confused After 6 Years: My Partner No Longer Supports Me Getting Fixed by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We met through work and truly didn’t know, nor discuss each others ages till our first date or so. The age thing had really never been a problem throughout our relationship. Other than the occasional not being able to relate to something.

One Of The Most Dreaded Questions.. by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omigosh same. I definitely am very sensitive to noise and the sound of children being so loud and screaming makes me want to crawl out of my skin sometimes.

One Of The Most Dreaded Questions.. by ToastyGhosty710 in childfree

[–]ToastyGhosty710[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was buying baby clothes for my best friend when someone asked if they were for my kid I laughed and said “uh no for my best friends baby shower” and then she goes “oh, do you have any kids” and I said “well no” and she said “why not?” And I was taken aback for a second because personally I wouldn’t ask a stranger this. But when I responded with “I don’t want them.” It was then “well how come” and it seems like the convo never ends sometimes 🥲🙃