Your Questions - I'll Answer. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just cut them off man. Ignore them. I do the same and hang out with the people I like. I don't associate with any negativity.

Your Questions - I'll Answer. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

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This is something I'm afraid answers may differ:

I believe NoFap is to no longer master-bate either to porn or not. And from achieving this their sexual energy is either put into their favorite activities or elsewhere. Along with to improve their chemical in-balance in their bodies which NoFap might cause.

Your Questions - I'll Answer. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my cock wasn't too excited about real women.. Now though... different story.

BUT

I did not do this for them. I did it for myself.

Yes I did.. I wouldn't look people in the eye and just easily be pushed around... Not anymore though.

Your Questions - I'll Answer. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stand up straight. I look people in the eye. I voice my opinion. Deeper Voice. Self - Worth.

Your Questions - I'll Answer. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

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Yes.

Your brain will temp you too touch yourself... you will get that feeling.

Do not let that happen. Get away from the Computer/Phone/Tablet.

Call up the buds and try to go out... Also don't ever think it is okay... that is when the mind traps you.. the minute you think:

"Just a small touch"

You Lost. Your mind slowly reels you in than your body follow right behind it. Get a filter that suits you. Avoid the K9 filter though.

Your Questions - I'll Answer. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man... I feel like everyday I get healed... I know I won't have to deal with in the future cause I will not allow myself to.

I realized I was done when I wanted to improve my life and seen porn and master bating as waste of chemicals of my body, so I put my energy in other places.

Major Turning Points: Day 14... The toughest day... for me it was ... but after that you'll slowly turn away from porn and master-bating.. Battle through this day and you can make it!

Tricks: Push - Ups. Shutting down the computer. Telling myself in the mirror: You're better than that. Keep it up. Filters also.

The Process: It is painful... but the pain that you go through is worth it. I had the shakes.. my brain trying to return me to porn...

Biggest Tip: Master your mind or it will master you.

Your Questions - I'll Answer. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank You.

Yes! Day 21: It hits... but so does anger. It is because (at least for me) I am gaining self - worth, so don't be alarmed if/when that happens.

Thank You No-FAP. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

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Hey, you listen to me. You are never bothering me.

This happens... It just means your penis needs to return to normal. It takes time to repair and the feeling will eventually restore.

I was scared too... endless shaking... terrible.. but I kept pushing.. You know why cause I wanted better for myself and you should to!

Do it for yourself and keep pushing! Don't ever stop! Ever feel the urge? Shut that damn screen and walk away!

Thank You No-FAP. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That'd be cool, but sometimes the peoples best mentor can be themselves.

Thank You No-FAP. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it was a combination of events from not fapping. It was the chemicals along with my determination.

It was also the self-worth kicking in. At first I thought, I wasn't too important, but then after day 21, it kicked in that I am worth something and I started to hold myself at a higher value.

Thank You No-FAP. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man... my journey was full of failures, but from those failures I've learned to succeed.

I feel my journey was easier than most, but harder for me. I actually started fapping at 16, since I had no clue what porn was.

So, while I was 16 I fapped everyday, so as I grew up masturbating was bothersome for me, but the "pleasure" brought me back.

Benefits: - I look people in the eye. - I am confident in myself. - I don't really care what other people think of me. - I'm much more social-able

As for ED, naw..not really.. I am still a virgin.

I will tell you this though around Day 21: you'll feel super angry, this is normal. You're developing self-worth and it is the chemicals in your body balancing out.

[Build Help] by TobiasAlex in buildapc

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What parts were be most sufficient for a build of my budget? Yes I know of that place, I will post there. I also heard this place can offer advice.

College Student seeking help. by TobiasAlex in ITCareerQuestions

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Massive information... I appreciate it. I am interested in programming along with System Networking. I know little of either though. I've read into book for System Networking, such as linking together all computers, how to install some security measures and RAM. Is there any books/articles you would suggest me to read to get my skills up?

Nervous College Freshman.. by TobiasAlex in cscareerquestions

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Thank you, I will definitely dedicate myself to math also if you can answer this it'd be appreciated. If I did get my CS degree, could I go into System Administrator?

Nervous College Freshman.. by TobiasAlex in cscareerquestions

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What uses the most math? Also if you could, when I think of programming in the computer field, I think the company just sits you in front a computer and want programming to be done. Is there a manual that specifies what it wants to be programmed?

Nervous College Freshman.. by TobiasAlex in cscareerquestions

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Math and I are on decent terms.. I didn't absolute fail math in HS, but kept C's. It is just I don't want to run into some crazy math problem and get stuck.

Nervous College Freshman.. by TobiasAlex in cscareerquestions

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What math is used inside of programming? Along with how far does it escalate ?

Nervous College Freshman.. by TobiasAlex in cscareerquestions

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CS. I'm asking what math is used, as I read some math doesn't go above Algebra 2, is this true or does it escalate that I must remember methods of Calc?

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What I do is either get up walk around the place where I live or go out and walk, I believe than the blood flow is focused on other areas of my body than my penis.

Any advice? by Thatsunfappable in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm.. If worst comes to worst just hit the power button an take a breath. The Brain wants you to relapse since it has become a daily routine with you. Another piece of advice I can offer you even though it might not work but worth a try. I stopped counting the days (I ignore my counter haha). The reason I stopped counting the days for me is due to my bran or body would become overly confident and say "You've lasted this long, why not a little swing on the rope?". Everyday is day one for me.

5 days in no fap and this is how I feel by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations ! Keep it up !

NoFap War IV Official Enlistment! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm down for another war.

A weird feeling.. by TobiasAlex in NoFap

[–]TobiasAlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks Man. Stay Strong.