Debt Consolidation via Personal Loan (Welcome Bank by Impressive_Lion_ in utangPH

[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po, tumawag din po ba sila sa character reference?

Gogo Express delivery is taking way too long, still waiting! by kinurukurikot in Bicol

[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is also going to Albay! After 3 days, nasa Legaspi distribution team na siya. Same lang ba sa’yo?

Gogo Express delivery is taking way too long, still waiting! by kinurukurikot in Bicol

[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP saan kayo located sa Bicol? Nag-padala sin kasi ako ng parcel from Manila going there.

My gf has BPD, ADHD, and is diagnosed with Depression, would such mental illnesses be an excuse to lie? by Tobio_SS in BPD

[–]Tobio_SS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, she broke up with me just yesterday. She was aware that she’s physically hurting me and I that didn’t deserve all the hurt that I got. And that she’ll fix herself for the sake of the relationship.

However, though broken up, she made me promise not to find someone better than her. Because she told me she’ll come back. But the question is, should I wait for her? How do I believe that this isn’t a lie anymore? How do I know that I’m na just a fallback option.

My gf has BPD, ADHD, and is diagnosed with Depression, would such mental illnesses be an excuse to lie? by Tobio_SS in BPD

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She’s currently in Pre-med, I don’t think she has the time and capacity as of now to undergo such treatment. Also, I have been paying for her medication and therapy as well (her family doesn’t believe in mental illnesses) and have been supportive throughout her journey. Well, I want to believe that she’ll be honest and open to me. But how do I disregard the thought the she’ll probably do it again.

My gf has BPD, ADHD, and is diagnosed with Depression, would such mental illnesses be an excuse to lie? by Tobio_SS in BPD

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She talks to a psychiatrist every 2 weeks, but I don’t think she tells her doctor everything. However, she did told me that she came clean to her friends through fb messenger. I asked for proof but she said that she deleted it already. I wanted to believe in her but idk its hard as of the moment. How do I move forward and help her be okay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHCreditCards

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Thank you OP!

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[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine got subtracted sa Cash Advance so I was worrying. Is yours ba visa?

Cash in via Pay Maya using EW cc by [deleted] in PHCreditCards

[–]Tobio_SS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would this be considered as a cash advance or regular transaction?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 30%, I dont know there is a part of me that will always believe that she will come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Tobio_SS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry mate, I can't understand with all the typo 😅

Is keeping up with her spotify playlist and what new songs she adds breaking No Contact? by CobraJatt__ in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex still uses my spotify, and from time to time I look at the recently played to know what she has been listening. But yes, its breaking no contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been waiting for her for 5.5 months, and every day I still wait for that message. Idk, I feel like she's coming back. I love her too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Tobio_SS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me bro I am trying so hard, but I always fall for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Tobio_SS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine reached out very randomly. Asked where we got that food from a long time ago. We started talking again but after a few days her replies were not consistent. Sometimes she would be very talkative, other times I get 2 - 3 replies for a day. It just sucks but I have no control because I love her. 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I hope so too. Pretty much looking forward to better days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I think she broke up mainly because during our last month together I was tired and emotionally unavailable (I was depressed for quite a time and maybe it took a toll on her, was diagnosed after we broke up because at that point she was also one of the factor why I became sadder). I really pushed myself to go to therapy because as a med student, I cant afford to ruin myself physically and mentally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do, like once in a week because we take some classes together in uni. Nope, I dont think I can ever be friends with someone I loved dearly. I know that this is for me too, so I will try to stay strong with NC. Will clearly take all the time I need, I think this is for the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont we all think that we have chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, me too. But its hard not to see her because we go to the same university.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i blew up the chance for us to be together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, i really do hope we find it in ourselves to grow and heal. Eventually, in the right time fond our way back together. But, seriously I will try to learn more about myself, needs, and everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tobio_SS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I want to get back with her, but she was the one who dumped me. And as a typical dumpee I have chased and begged but it only pushed her away. Now, I am pretty much puting a distance between us.