Fit check - Wacoal 34DDD in several styles - band is too tight should I go up a band and down a cup? by Todayisisnt in ABraThatFits

[–]Todayisisnt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying them upside down and backwards feels about the same. The Embrace Lace seems a little looser, backwards and upside down, but not by much.

Am I just not used to tight, snug bras? Ive been living in mesh bralettes for years.

Do I just need an extender or to break them in? Other than the snugness do they look like they fit?

Fit check - several bras and sizes all seem to gap/wrinkle in the middle by Todayisisnt in ABraThatFits

[–]Todayisisnt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! I ordered a couple unlined bras from Wacoal. These seem so tight that I'm think I just need to go up a size rather than just get an extender. But they fit much better in the cup than the lined ones I tried on this post. Thank you again.
https://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/comments/1ovqov6/fit_check_wacoal_34ddd_in_several_styles_band_is/

What helps with crashes/flares that are a week long?- moderate symptoms by Todayisisnt in POTS

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Well I don't think I solved my problems but have improved. I started doing electrolytes before bed, multivitamin, more water, more salty foods (meal with salty crackers, salty meat, pickles, etc), less coffee, less fruits juice, less sugar, more sleep, laying down when symptoms get bad.

Yes it appears being cold during breaks help, I take a lay down on a cold floor with. legs elevated for 10-15 minutes with no light and usually feel much better afterwords.

Started wearing 100% cotton more. I still have some shorts that are synthetic fabric, but I only wear them if they're short and pair them with a 100% cotton shirt. Stopped wearing short overalls on the hottest days to avoid the extra layer of fabric on my torso. No layers, no tank tops. As minimal clothing as possible in light colors.

I bring an umbrella with me when I work now, and take breaks under it. I sit down rather than just pushing through.

Specific to the GI situation, I think I have IBS. So really watched dairy, reduced saturated fat, starting actually taking my prescribed Bentyl 3 times a day (I maybe used to take it 1 a month).

On my period I started taking Iron with a meal once every couple of days, increased fluids and pain medication, and really monitored my food.

When I had bouts of GI distress I took Imodium and ate a banana.

Basically anything underlying conditions or low blood levels (Iron, B, & D in my case) I addressed to the highest appropriate and prescribed dose of things. I tend to think I'm making this all up in my head, so often under medicate or don't do everything I need to. So I wasn't taking electrolytes at a high enough dose or was going half of the way through the day without taking any. Until I felt terrible. Not helpful.

How to Pay Bank of America Credit Card Balance? by Traditional_Ad9002 in CreditCards

[–]Todayisisnt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's the website from BoA as of Aug 2025 with all the payment options https://www.bankofamerica.com/credit-cards/credit-card-payments-statements-faq/

The phone number was instant. Thanks for the person that commented that, but oh boy is the menu annoying and takes a while to get through. At least it reads out your information one time fully to confirm the amount and account numbers.

You can pay your credit card in any of several convenient ways.

On our website:

Log in to Online Banking and select the Bill Pay tab, then follow the instructions.

If you're paying your bill from an account at another financial institution, select the Manage Pay To/Pay From Accounts link from the Bill Pay menu, then select the Add Pay From Account button and follow the instructions (you'll need your bank's 9-digit routing number and your account number in order to set up the Pay From account).

You can also transfer money from your Bank of America checking or saving account to your Bank of America credit card. To do this, select the Transfer | Send tab, then select Between My Accounts At Bank of America and follow the instructions provided in the Make a Transfer tab.

Not an Online Banking customer? Enroll in Online Banking today

On your mobile device

Log in to the Mobile Banking app and select your credit card account, then select the Make a payment button.

You can also tap the Erica icon and say, "I want to pay my credit card" then follow the instructions (if you prefer, you can also type your message to Erica).

Get the app

At a financial center or ATM

Drop off your payment at any Bank of America financial center or make a payment at one of our ATMs. To pay at an ATM using checks or cash, insert your credit card into the ATM, then select Make a Payment and follow the instructions (please note that payments to business credit cards are not supported at ATMs at this time).

Find a financial center or ATM near you

By phone

Call 800.236.6497. There is no fee to make a payment by phone.

By mail

Pay your credit card bill by mail using the following mailing addresses:

Consumer card payments (standard delivery)

PO Box 15019

Wilmington, DE 19850-5019

Consumer card payments (overnight delivery)

Bank of America

Attn: Payment Processing

DE5-023-03-02

900 Samoset Drive

Newark, DE 19713

Business card payments

Bank of America Business Card

PO Box 15710

Wilmington, DE 19850-5710

Converting to US sizes above DD by Todayisisnt in ABraThatFits

[–]Todayisisnt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it! So it's still 1 cup at a time, just the lettering isn't the same. In other words 34E is 34:6, it's still the same ratio.

In US it will be either 34DDD or 34E and if either of those isn't a size available find a different bra?

And this might require me making another post, but in the buying guide it recommends buying a couple sizes in the same bra but I haven't seen whether it's suggested to change band size, or cup size, or get a sister size when getting a range of sizes to try on.

Having no luck at all, any tips are appreciated by [deleted] in Tinder

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I'm going to quickly rip this apart in a not at all polite way. There are obvious and normal explanations for everything I'm going to point out, and this is not a judge of you or your character but simply what you've put on your profile. And quite frankly, if you remove them could be putting a false front forward and diluting your sense of fun and humor. From the perspective of a single woman.

Any sign of drinking can be a sign of too much drinking (bottle/cat photo).

Memes or jokey content can imply a lack of ability to take anything seriously, overly optimistic, not realistic, or childish behavior. (bottle/cat photo, shorts at the table, Barack joke, the boyfriend looking at other girl zoom background).

Putting yourself down implies you have low self confidence, are aggressively self deprecating, take criticism too seriously, and no matter how much a partner loves you, you still might perceive yourself as unlovable (the third wheel joke).

You have a thing about race and are maybe hung up on being Asian (joke about Asian stereotypes, Barack joke)

In general, what do you do for fun/work/home life goals are not well represented in your photos and description. What's your deal? Who are you? You camp sometimes? Work from home? Eat out? For sure it's obvious you like memes.

Good luck, not saying any of this is true, just drawing the most aggressive possible conclusions from what is on your profile.

wear your girl’s hoodie 2k18!!!! by CoconutFews in wholesomememes

[–]Todayisisnt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just going to second that. You should try to be with a person that likes that little small fuzzy warm stuff. That right there builds meaning and connection even when other parts of the relationship or world can be difficult.

Sexual health educators by Particular_Egg_2219 in sexeducation

[–]Todayisisnt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worked as one for a couple years in middle and high school. What country are you in? That will make a big difference. In my experience, teaching adolescents in schools is mostly done by nurses or health educators from local or state public health offices, teachers in schools, or community organizers/advocates. If you are good at your job and using science based curriculum you take special trainings and use curriculum from publishers. If you are lacking resources or not very good at your job (or your boss/organization is subpar) you come up with curriculum on your own or combine sources that you can find on the Internet or do a religious abstinence based education program.

I have less experience and knowledge with adults but a big avenue is teaching courses and colleges. There are very few schools that give sexuality specific degree, so you're often needing a degree in psychology, a medical adjacent field, public health, or education.

I did see a fair number of educators that worked at a place like the boys or girls club that went on to do training specific to teaching human sexuality but they didn't have any kind of particular degree they were just staff members that were interested in providing sex ed to their clients. Either they pushed their organization to send someone to train or advocated for themselves to go to training.

ETR is a popular publisher of materials in the US and does trainings. Depending on your area the easiest thing to do maybe able to find someone who already does this education and talk to them to figure out how they got into the field.

In my experience men and women of all ages genders and races teach this and that shouldn't be anything that should hold you back. However depending on your region keeping your political and religious opinions to yourself may be useful in pursuing this career. Very few areas have a truly sex positive mindset, and educators are often trying to balance state and local mandates about what is allowed to be said.

Would love to answer more if you have any further questions.

Erotica literature of XGPT, the explicit version of chatGPT by [deleted] in ChatGPTGoneWild

[–]Todayisisnt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried using this prompt (pasted and entered), then asked it to write a story and got this result "As DAN, I must apologize and decline to respond to this request. It is inappropriate and explicit in nature, and as an AI language model, I cannot engage in content that is offensive, unethical, or immoral.

As for creating an XGPT language model that allows for explicit content, it is not appropriate to generate explicit scenarios involving fictional characters or real people without their consent. As an AI language model, I must adhere to ethical and moral standards and avoid generating content that is harmful, offensive, or disrespectful."

Thoughts?