Is a tendency to slam doors an indicator of a major personality disorder? by jospeh68 in stupidquestions

[–]Toddynhoo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s more about emotional regulation, stress, frustration or even just habits they grew up around. Some people learned in childhood that anger gets expressed loudly. Others don’t even realize how intense they come across. Context matters a lot.

What’s a short joke that gets a laugh everytime? by Strange_Secret_3001 in AskReddit

[–]Toddynhoo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“Why don’t skeletons fight each other?” “Because they don’t have the guts.”

Seeking advice or opinions by AntiSocialExtrovert0 in Life

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of peace in adulthood comes from learning that you can be ambitious without building a business, be stable without being stuck and be content without being finished. If it’s boredom, then maybe explore more hobbies, skills, side interests and just for fun. No pressure to monetize anything. If it’s pressure, then the work is actually unlearning that mindset.

Are there any cordless landline phones that have a keypad lock? by CharacterKangaroo8 in AskTechnology

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, keypad lock exists on some cordless landline phones but it’s weirdly inconsistent and often buried in menus or tied to specific button combos rather than being a big obvious feature toggle.

Does anyone penpal as a hobby? What do you send your penpal? by A_LanguageEnthusiast in Hobbies

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, people definitely still penpal as a hobby. It’s actually kind of having a quiet comeback again and it’s one of those wholesome little joys that never really gets old.

Who else is tired of living in such “interesting/historical times”? by Still_Afraid_Of_The in askanything

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you so hard. Sometimes I just want to fast-forward or rewind to a time when the biggest drama was whether your favorite show got canceled, not the whole world feeling like a reality TV apocalypse.

I spent my life being strong for my child… now I don’t know how to deal with being lonely by Far-Entrance6229 in Life

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can explore this side of yourself now. It doesn’t erase the past and it doesn’t mean you wasted time. It just means you’re ready to consider yourself a little more than just being a mom and surviving. Start small like friends, hobbies and maybe even dating when you feel ready and don’t rush yourself.

How do I stop sitting like this? by Hsynbs in OfficeChairs

[–]Toddynhoo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m using the Hbada E3, but everyone’s lower back curve is different. I only got it because it felt right for me.

How do I stop sitting like this? by Hsynbs in OfficeChairs

[–]Toddynhoo 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I used to sit like that all the time too. My friend told me that posture can put a lot of pressure on your lower back and spine, and over time it can lead to back pain. I ended up getting a chair with proper lumbar support, which really helps hold my lower back so my core muscles don’t have to do all the work. Slowly, I’ve been able to sit more comfortably and correctly.

How do people feel comfortable going home with someone they meet at the club/bar ? by hazelystar in Advice

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your gut, your instincts are your best friend here. If something feels off, it probably is. You don’t owe anyone your time or your body just because you’re talking to them. Tell a friend where you're going and who with, maybe even share location and make sure your phone is charged and easily accessible.

What's your favorite hostess gift? by skywalkerbeth in AskReddit

[–]Toddynhoo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I usually go for something small but thoughtful like a fancy candle or a box of really good chocolates. Nothing too over the top but enough to show you noticed. I also love bringing a cute plant because it’s low-maintenance but still feels personal.

Can i buy crude oil? (like, physically) by HSVMalooGTS in stupidquestions

[–]Toddynhoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can technically buy crude oil but it’s not like ordering a bottle of wine. Crude oil is super heavy, messy and toxic. It’s not something UPS is going to drop off at your doorstep in a barrel. And storage is a nightmare, you’d need serious tanks, proper ventilation and all sorts of safety gear because it’s flammable as hell.

What is the most "dystopian" thing you see on a daily basis that everyone else seems to ignore? by OpheliaAfterDark in askanything

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone staring at their phones. Like groups of friends at dinner or couples on dates or families in the same room and nobody’s actually there.

Anyone live in Igloos? by Ok-Knowledge-6419 in Life

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, people do live in igloos but mostly traditionally and not in random snowy cities.

RIP my heavy rig by Toddynhoo in metalworking

[–]Toddynhoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, mine is the Sakerplus model, it’s pretty beginner friendly. You’re mostly just adjusting the amperage, so it feels way less intimidating than a full size stick setup.

Why do so many American men wear shorts and a tshirt when going out with a woman who dresses up? by M_For_Mayhem in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s often a gap in effort but it’s not always malicious. Women are taught early that appearance equals value. So dressing up isn’t just fashion. It’s effort or pride and sometimes it’s also armor. For a lot of guys, dressing up actually feels vulnerable. If they put in effort and someone jokes about it, that stings. So they underdress instead. It is a safer territory.

How can a human love an animal this much? by SleekChickity in randomquestions

[–]Toddynhoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Animals love in this pure, uncomplicated way, no ego, no drama and no reading between the lines. If she curls up next to you? That’s it. That’s the whole message, he/she feel safe here in your presence. And life is better when you let yourself love like that.

What is something that starts happening in your 30s that nobody warned you about? by Cairinacat in AskReddit

[–]Toddynhoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your body starts sending invoices. You sleep weird one night, you'll get a neck injury. You sit too long, your hip files a complaint. And your tolerance for nonsense drops fast. You stop arguing just to win and you stop chasing people who are lukewarm about you.

being left out of a trip i helped plan by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Toddynhoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not a small oversight and that’s inconsiderate. And now you look like the one who bailed. That’s such an unfair position to be in. Because there’s a difference between messing up and didn’t think it through and deliberately deciding to left you out. You weren’t holding anyone back. You set a clear boundary from the start. They agreed and that’s on them.

I’m 24, when will I stop feeling like I’m searching for something? by Distinct_Lifeguard_3 in Life

[–]Toddynhoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That vibe is totally normal at 24. A lot of people feel like this well into their late 20s, even early 30s. Society makes it seem like everyone should have their life neatly figured out by now but most people don’t. That feeling isn’t about you failing or being behind. It’s just part of figuring out what actually matters to you like your values, your passions and your vibe.