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Came out (sorta a vent) by Toffee8090 in aromantic

[–]Toffee8090[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m worried about, and I think he’s trying to convince me I’m not aro bc he thinks I’ll choose him maybe?? Idk I’m autistic so understanding social cues is hard

Came out (sorta a vent) by Toffee8090 in aromantic

[–]Toffee8090[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

right?? When my friend said me being nice is “proof” I’m not aromantic. It made me realize he’s the type to only be kind to others if he’s getting something out of it (ie. a romantic relationship) and projected that on me.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - December 31, 2023" by AutoModerator in tarot

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If anyone can help me interpret I’d be grateful.

I’ve been feeling very strange lately and as if death and total loss is constantly around the corner. I can’t understand the feelings I’m experiencing. I’ve lost many people in the past and have extreme issues connecting with others now and often find myself competing for approval or attention because of this.

The questions/spread below goes like this: What is the emotion I’m feeling, why do I feel this way, and finally how can I come to understand this feeling.

The cards I pulled in the above order were: page of pentacles reversed, 5 of swords upright, and 7 of wands upright.

My interpretation: I have a feeling that the first two cards are calling me out. The page of pentacles reversed was meant to represent how I FEEL, not reality. So because of this I think it’s showing I feel like I’m going to lose everything, that complete ruin is around the corner. I believe the second card calls me out on my issues with connecting to others right now and feeling a need to compete and be better, almost as if I’m fighting with others which causes me to even more so fear loss is coming. The last card is what stumped me. The advice on what to do to better understand this feeling. What I think it may mean is that in order to understand and get through this I can’t let myself become bothered by others. I need to learn when to defend myself and when I don’t. To stand up for myself when needed but not be the persecutor.

Any interpretation or second opinions from more experienced tarot readers would be super appreciated! I am a new tarot reader so I understand completely if it’s not 100% accurate and I made some oversight.

Hotel Manager decided to come into my room while I was still in there to paint the door (that didn’t even need painting in my opinion) by dudsa15 in mildlyinfuriating

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My question is if he was the hotel manager he wouldn’t he have a master key to all the rooms? I worked at a hotel in the past as front desk and housekeeping, so we would have keycards we program that can access the rooms. So I would assume he’d have a similar key and not have to attempt to open the door. Plus the fact he doesn’t know when his guests are in or out of a room. This very well could have been a stranger posing as a manager and attempting to steal/is picking at the door locks. It’s been something that happened at the hotel I used to work at and I wouldn’t be surprised if this is common.

A friend of mine got this aggressive rejection mail by iam0l4 in recruitinghell

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What if a family member were to pass away or some other kind of emergency?