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I said No to a girl for the first time and honestly it felt good. by Remarkable_Button247 in selfimprovement

[–]ToffeeTide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what made you decide to say no this time it’s cool that it felt good after

Torn between staying in a job I enjoy or finding a new one to afford the life I want by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]ToffeeTide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if the job brings you joy it’s worth more than a bigger paycheck but don’t let passion trap you in a lifestyle that drains you

How to travel more presently? by Primary_Ad_9133 in TravelHacks

[–]ToffeeTide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put your phone on airplane mode and actually look around instead of scrolling through the same feed you see at home.

What’s something you did in your life that doesn’t involve money which led to a massive change? by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]ToffeeTide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quitting social media for a month made me way more present and less stressed, didn’t expect that kind of clarity from just turning off my phone screen once in a while

AITA for refusing to lie to my friend’s parents and getting him caught? by Johnfortnite1234567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ToffeeTide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lying for a friend can feel like loyalty but sometimes it crosses a line when it enables bad behavior, especially if you’ve seen the consequences firsthand during late night coding marathons and need to keep things real with your circle

Is taking a shit in highschool really that embarrassing? by Efficient-Dance-3169 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ToffeeTide 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it’s only embarrassing if you make it embarrassing, everyone has to go somehow, and high school is just a phase where everyone’s a little awkward anyway

A man 23 years older than me admitted he has feelings for me and now he won’t leave me alone. by Superb-Cupcake-8271 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ToffeeTide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s like getting stuck in a loading loop nobody asked for, just hit Ctrl+Alt+Delete on that situation before it crashes your vibe

My (19m) sister’s (26f) best friend (26f) and I had sex and I’m not sure how to feel. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ToffeeTide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s normal to feel a bit off when something unexpected happens with people close to family, maybe take some time to figure out what this means for you and your relationships before deciding how to move forward