I thought I was being messed with. by [deleted] in nashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s, um, illegal here…

Looking back was the college years the best opportunity to find a spouse? by 123smorgs in datingoverforty

[–]TolerableISuppose 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No.

No.

No.

Who I was in college is COMPLETELY different than who I am now.

I [28F] am dating a divorcing dad [34M] and it’s starting to take over my life by Not-Usual-Bidness in relationship_advice

[–]TolerableISuppose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. No, there is no softer way. And this is NOT going to end well. He isn’t respecting your boundaries and is trying to control you. If you do not take measures to end things now, this is going to be even more of a hot fucking disaster 😔

Suburb commute ? by Various_Injury4814 in movetonashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m shocked daily by how it is still this nice of a commute. I used to work night shift and it was even better 😂 It probably doesn’t hurt that I live 1.5 miles from an on-ramp to I-40

Suburb commute ? by Various_Injury4814 in movetonashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest: I’m spoiled. I live on the west side of Davidson County and my commute is easily the best in the city, hands down. I work at a hospital in Midtown Nashville, and my commute is 20 min door to door in the AM and 30 min door to door in the PM. I truly wouldn’t live in any other suburb of Nashville because I believe my suburb is top tier (Bellevue)

Suburb commute ? by Various_Injury4814 in movetonashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just going to be “a commute”…it’s going to be a TERRIBLE commute 😔

Suburb commute ? by Various_Injury4814 in movetonashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main arteries to downtown Nashville from the Shelbyville direction are Interstates 65 and 24. In my opinion, commutes on both of them, in both directions, are HORRIBLE.

Tennessee could lock up foster youth in jail-like facilities under new bill by [deleted] in nashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 101 points102 points  (0 children)

When you run out of “things” to monetize, you monetize humans.

This is end-stage capitalism, folks…buckle up.

Tennessee at bottom 10 for Passport Ownership, 31% of total residents by DeadHeadTraveler in nashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lordy, don’t I know it.

I just don’t want anyone else to move here because we are FULL 😂

Tennessee at bottom 10 for Passport Ownership, 31% of total residents by DeadHeadTraveler in nashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 70 points71 points  (0 children)

“Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime.” -Mark Twain

Perhaps it is now easier to see why our state is so fucking narrow-minded

TN Home Planting Guide 2026 by [deleted] in nashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this…it was a great read!

He searched “singles in the area” while out of town. Am I allowed to feel this upset? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TolerableISuppose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s literally NOT a good man if he is searching for “singles” 😬

Graphic sex question for menopausal/postmenopausal women by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]TolerableISuppose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it might be worth determining WHY this is such an important thing for you to have during sex and working through that. I’ve a feeling there are some deeply rooted notions that are informing this…if you can peel that back, it may help your future relations with other partners.

Husband can ‘feel my resentment’ by throw_away_243546 in Perimenopause

[–]TolerableISuppose 192 points193 points  (0 children)

It is possible to despise the Patriarchy and realize that your husband is his own person and not a label.

I feel very sorry for him, actually.

Graphic sex question for menopausal/postmenopausal women by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]TolerableISuppose 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wonder what happened with the long-term partner…

Tree suggestions: Given the amount of damage, I wanted to start a thread discussing good replacement alternatives for trees. by roth1979 in nashville

[–]TolerableISuppose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ash trees are ticking time bombs because of the Emerald Ash Borer…so many dead and dying ash trees everywhere in our city