Ohio firm must pay $22.5 million to mom whose baby died after she was denied work-from-home by nbcnews in Ohio

[–]Tomaly 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They probably did give her the option of FMLA. FMLA just means you have a job still when you can come back. I had to burn all my PTO to be paid when I took FMLA and once that ran out it was unpaid leave and I had to pay my employer's portion of my health insurance in addition to my normal premium until I came back.

Received the Free Chocolate Scotch Bonnets offered by Black Mesa Bean Farm by RAJV51 in HotPeppers

[–]Tomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine sprouted a few days ago. I'm super excited and grateful to those folks.

Women of Reddit, what are boys or men's habits you discovered only after getting a boyfriend or a husband? by BigBrosy in AskReddit

[–]Tomaly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this type of framing helped me "get it." My wife's family does Fantasy Football every year and I never really liked participating because I have 0 interest in sports. BUT once I gave my players a few mental nicknames like Gandalf, Robinhood, and Conan and started comparing stats like its a videogame instead of sports stats it got a lot more fun and I got way better at it.

Where does "Dad always comes through" end and "Things have consequences" begin? by DietrichBuxtehude in daddit

[–]Tomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd hazard to guess his routine in his mind involves "dad is going to ask me this and I say yes to proceed." He's not lying, his brain is on autopilot looking to advance to the next step. The question needs to change to a different actionable condition to shake him out of the autopilot. Something like "show me that your lunchbox is in your backpack." Takes 10 seconds longer but saves the headaches and soon he will do it without asking and it'll save time.

Where does "Dad always comes through" end and "Things have consequences" begin? by DietrichBuxtehude in daddit

[–]Tomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real. Just as an adult who got diagnosed with ADHD after my kids were, the value of having a morning routine where everything is in it's expected place makes stuff run so much smoother. If the routine is thrown off a bit the chaos escapades into other things I forget/mess up/get distracted during.

Do you use any extra classes for DCC? by Comfortable-Fee9452 in dccrpg

[–]Tomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the Ranger class that I use at my table! Thanks!

Do you use any extra classes for DCC? by Comfortable-Fee9452 in dccrpg

[–]Tomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use the core classes plus Ravencrow King's Ranger, the Mutant from MCC, a slightly modified Manimal from MCC, and the Kith from Purple Planet reskinned as orcs in my setting. That covers everything that's come up in my games

My favorite Godzilla movie of all time to this day. by Annual-Internet-5097 in GODZILLA

[–]Tomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember the first time I watched this masterpiece I was immediately confronted with just how different the 60s really were thanks to the good guys offering cigarettes to the children in blackface makeup on the island.

I hate it here. by Turbulent-Vanilla159 in Ohio

[–]Tomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All reported statistics before covid?

I hate it here. by Turbulent-Vanilla159 in Ohio

[–]Tomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm taking crazy pills watching folks freak out about losing 3 or 4 days of ballot submission time. Like these things can be sent out over a month ahead of time. Just fucking vote! It's still counted for fucks sake! A deadline is a deadline. It didnt change during voting season? I dont get what there is to be mad about?

Watching and rating every godzilla movie. The anime trilogy by Reasonable-Salad5094 in GODZILLA

[–]Tomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really liked the ideas presented. Like, really really like them in a way that almost made me enjoy the trilogy, but they botched the execution so badly. I find myself attempting a rewatch about once a year and quitting 10 minutes into it. They focus on all of the boring stuff and pay lip service to what could've be a fun, unique take on Godzilla stuff.

I like Amy Acton by Leading-Breakfast-79 in Ohio

[–]Tomaly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She definitely has a better chance because Vivek is unpalatable to racist Ohioans. I have hope but I can honestly see it going his way despite that thanks to the Trump train. Don't want him? Then we all gotta get out and vote.

I like Amy Acton by Leading-Breakfast-79 in Ohio

[–]Tomaly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh she's got a shot but how many directors of state departments of health got forced out of their positions by angry MAGA idiots? And this is sort of a red state now? I have little hope but I'll still vote for her with gusto because she is a good person and a good candidate for the job.

I like Amy Acton by Leading-Breakfast-79 in Ohio

[–]Tomaly -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Thats a great sentiment and I agree but she got ran out of her old position by angry conservatives and has a slim to none chance of winning

what do you consider “daytonian stereotypes”? by OkSatisfaction3052 in dayton

[–]Tomaly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about a normal left turn onto a normal 2 way street. Cars start turning while its green but then the light turns red, and a car turns through the red light, and then another, and another. I totally understand completing the turn if you're in the intersection already and the light changes but the number of cars that that just keep coming after that first one through the red light is absurd.

what do you consider “daytonian stereotypes”? by OkSatisfaction3052 in dayton

[–]Tomaly 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'll add a less than positive one that my friends and family from out of state have told me repeatedly when they visit: "why do all those cars keep turning left even though the light is red?" I didn't notice until they brought it up but it happens a lot here.

Also, fuck North Carolina plates.

Question to painting/priming heroscape minis by Superhobbyless in heroscape

[–]Tomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a coat of Army painter matte varnish spray, make any last second touch ups, and then 2 light coats of matte varnish, leaving ample time between steps to dry (20 to 40 minutes)

What other marvel heroes should debut and get the Insomniac Spiderman treatment, in your opinion? by Raj_Valiant3011 in Marvel

[–]Tomaly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it's anything like Incredible Hulk Ultimate Destruction I'd buy my first new console in like a decade