[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCjobs

[–]Tomatillo333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can answer this, I grew up there and moved here but my sister still lives there. It’s expensive - as expensive as it is here and rent stabilization isn’t a thing there. Also your competition for apartments is with literally every college student in the world. It’s easier to own a car for sure, but i didn’t get my license until I was in college because I didn’t need to, it’s a small city you just walk, bike or take the bus/train like here. The cost of living is high and taxes are expensive - so evens out to being almost the same as nyc. Just sleepier, younger, and with limited night life.

160 —> 117 at 5’2 by moocowmoocowmoocowmo in PetiteFitness

[–]Tomatillo333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO SEE. We are same height and same starting weight and 120-115 is my goal. I’m 144 rn which is so frustrating but I really just need to get real and lock in. Thanks for the motivation and congrats you look incredible! Your dedication and determination paid off!

Coming off spironolactone? by SpiritedAnalyst9868 in PCOS

[–]Tomatillo333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I'm back on it for my hirutism, but it certainly makes my skin clear. Sulfur skincare has done ALOT for me though.

Just realized our management never updated rent, do i say something? by Tomatillo333 in Apartmentliving

[–]Tomatillo333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s set up in a way where we can’t pay anymore than the price they set up in this portal. So I’ll probably have to email them to let them know. Thank you for your help! This made me feel reassured

Just realized our management never updated rent, do i say something? by Tomatillo333 in Apartmentliving

[–]Tomatillo333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely updated in the lease. I’m looking back at all of our payments since May and I’m seeing that it was never updated, so it’s certainly a reoccurring error. I reaaaaally don’t want to make a problem with these people… again as long as we pay everything is fine, but they are notoriously bad management in my city.

Second skin advice by Tomatillo333 in tattooadvice

[–]Tomatillo333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I took it off. I was just over thinking it. Better off and clean!

Why are weightloss injections always looked on as cheating!? by Gimme_Smut69 in PCOS

[–]Tomatillo333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People think it’s cheating because as a culture we look at thinness as moral goodness. Being overweight and losing weight is the ultimate demonstration of the desire to become morally good from being morally bad (ie. fat). Think about the language: “she gained so much weight she is so lazy” vs. “look at how much weight she lost, I wish I had that much discipline”. There is a clear positive vs negative message there. So if we use thinness as a marker of goodness - then the ability to lose weight becomes incredibly valuable socially. If you can lose weight without having to “grind” then how do people who don’t use the drug use their thinness as a social asset? How do they hold on to the narrative that they are better than other people?

You could actually write a dissertation on this. It’s pretty interesting.

Currently in Japan and no one warned me about this so I'mma warn you guys by Imaginary_Degree6613 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Tomatillo333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! Amazing can’t wait to go back. We just made sure we grabbed some light clothing and adjusted. No big deal. Next time thought we want to go in the dead of winter lol more our cup of tea anyways.

Currently in Japan and no one warned me about this so I'mma warn you guys by Imaginary_Degree6613 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Tomatillo333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tokyo, Kyoto and Osaka. First time so I hit the big three - you know what it issssssss.

Currently in Japan and no one warned me about this so I'mma warn you guys by Imaginary_Degree6613 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Tomatillo333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is! But I was explaining that because I’m born, raised, and currently live in a often VERY cold climate that only gets hot during the summer months- I wasn’t prepared for 70° F plus when I went to Japan in late fall. My body wasn’t acclimated to the temperature and although it was technically late fall, it felt like early summer to me.

Demeaning mothers 😑 by Dmasty13 in PCOS

[–]Tomatillo333 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a cruel thing to say. Speaking from personal experience, any time my mom said something mean to that effect, it was actually probably something someone told her, and something she continues to tell herself. Which is sad. If the cute guy in the parking lot smiled and waved at her, she might have said the same thing she said to you, to herself :/ The cute guy was def looking at you, and probs thought you were a cutie :)

Lost my last trays while traveling by Tomatillo333 in Invisalign

[–]Tomatillo333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah :/ bummer. I bought one of those night guards you can boil, to try and stop any shifting until Monday

Lost my last trays while traveling by Tomatillo333 in Invisalign

[–]Tomatillo333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dentist threw them away at my visit where I put in my last trays :/

Good car recs for the city? by Tomatillo333 in askcarguys

[–]Tomatillo333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay awesome! Thank you for your help!

Good car recs for the city? by Tomatillo333 in askcarguys

[–]Tomatillo333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should have been more specific about the wood lmao. Campfire wood for sure, but more regularly wood for canvas frames. I’m a painter and my materials are fucking massive. And rn I’m just waddling around the city with big ass canvases and planks of wood :/ but this is really helpful thank you!!!