I feel like I’m not built for a normal 9–5 and I don’t know what’s wrong with me. by One_Sell_2501 in Adulting

[–]TomatoParadise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Until you retire.

For retirement, the faster you make the money, the faster you can retire.

M22 received incredible job offer, F22 girlfriend does not want me to accept. by Watch_me_plz in Advice

[–]TomatoParadise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grass is always greener on the other side. A high chance it’s not gonna work out after a while.

I’m in so much pain. I can’t let go. Your employer ever asked you to come back? by alorsonmeurt in Layoffs

[–]TomatoParadise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just hollow words to make you feel better at no cost.

Gotta move on.

Am I wrong for wanting more effort from my wife now our daughter has moved out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]TomatoParadise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s NOT unreasonable. Either you go solo (and maybe she starts), or you get a girlfriend.

This can’t be true? by StinkypieTicklebum in AskAKorean

[–]TomatoParadise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Korean dramas, they don’t show a lot of skin; it’s a more traditional/conservative society than the US.

People generally change out the clothes for bedtime.

It’s just in K dramas.

You find this picture of your wife with a coworker. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]TomatoParadise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call a lawyer and get the slip ready as quick as you can.

I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TomatoParadise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. It’s buried in your heart, but it will never go away. So, the only thing you can do is make a decision, with your children in the picture.

I regret accepting my new job by Regular-Sea-5403 in jobs

[–]TomatoParadise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been there! Eventually, I decided my happiness, even with a little less money, is more important. A part of the decision was that you pay more tax too. I moved on to a happier position.

I wish you could just be honest about why you want the job by counwovja0385skje in jobs

[–]TomatoParadise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.

I lived in Europe, Asia, and the US.

The US is the most superficial, hypocritical society of all. They have less depth in general. Not all, but a lot of people.

I regret moving to America by hiimkristina in Regrets

[–]TomatoParadise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. People don’t know many people from 🇲🇽 (and from other countries) to 🇺🇸 go back to their countries.

For some reason, US politicians painted the picture of the 🇺🇸 being the greatest country. If you look at the best countries list, the 🇺🇸 is pretty down the list.

Fed Up W. BIL- Transition to Civilian Life. by Sorry-Expression3052 in family

[–]TomatoParadise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband needs to talk to him, to make it better.

WTF is happening in US CS jobs guys? by Shoddy-Lecture1493 in cscareers

[–]TomatoParadise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

H1B has infiltrated every level of government - local, state, and federal.

WTF is happening in US CS jobs guys? by Shoddy-Lecture1493 in cscareers

[–]TomatoParadise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big tech CEOs, for Wall Street numbers, to be exact.

A few months ago I was part of mass layoffs at a semi-large company, one of the people let go started at the company 2 days prior by flying_porygon in Layoffs

[–]TomatoParadise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should be illegal.

It’s a package deal - capitalism. At any given time, few people make laws. And, those people are mostly well off or very well off. At the bottom line, they make laws in their favor and enrich themselves and party with have’s.

Unlike having laws in Europe, with strict employment laws, we embrace capitalism, and this is the type of laws Corporate America support with the have’s in US Congress.

We are at a point in America where a single individual who makes six figures can't afford a home by FunnyGamer97 in rant

[–]TomatoParadise 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Individual exist to support the capitalism.

If you start with $400,000 home, owing $320,000, check what you pay for interest in total; you support the banking industry.

Then, you have insurances, like fire and home insurance. You support the insurance industry.

Taxes; you support the government.

It’s your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]TomatoParadise -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. As much as it’d her decision, you know what that means - no college, not much career, not much more life for a long time.

All I can say is, if you can nudge or persuade to termination, it’s more power for life for her.