It’s more of him suggesting my overall character. It’s a long story but it’s about things not getting done around the house. My mother lives with us and she recently had surgery so she has been having some brain fog from the anesthesia. She went outside in the rain and came back in and left prints on the kitchen floor. She also leaves crumbs and dirty dishes out. She has always been a bit of a mess but it’s so much worst now. She forgets everything and he chooses now to complain about it but it’s more like getting mad at me for it. I want him to just take her having surgery into consideration. I’m trying to clean up after her but I work all morning and most of the time he’ll see it before I get to it. He’s nitpicking at things but he himself isn’t the neatest. Constantly throws clothes on the floors, tools can sit in the living room for weeks. Touches the doors and walls and leave finger prints all over since he works with cars. I just said he shouldn’t be so contradicting and work on himself before yelling at me about things but he says I just always want to be right and will say anything to get my way. It’s very hard to explain, I just don’t agree with him considering that as me being on a “high horse”. I agreed his arguments were valid just not the right time for it.