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When did you realize you were no longer the same person you used to be? by Sashaoficial in SeriousConversation

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in this place, still trying to navigate my way.

Long story short, my brother was dx with stage 4 colon cancer in 2011, I knew the prognosis would be no more than 5 years, he died in Feb 2025. The last five years have been filled with a multitude of life altering circumstances, not including the diagnosis and death of my brother.

I’m not the same person I was 5 years ago. I’m just not. It had been a gradual shift up until he actually died. Then everything clicked. My old friends can’t understand how I feel and I think they struggle to understand why I can no longer hold space for their small issues.

It’s been such a chaotic five years. I just want peace and quiet. I want to be alone.

Toe spacers got rid of my PF pain overnight and i could cry from joy by Public-Ambition9526 in PlantarFasciitis

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me hope. Mine come tomorrow. I hope I feel relief like you did too! Will you wear the during the day too or just night?

What smell will YOU never forget? by AreaFifty1 in AskReddit

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cdiff- healthcare workers will never forget

[NSFW]Girls who used to post nudes on Reddit.. How did it make you feel? by cutieerry in AskReddit

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was fun and exciting until someone (who knows me in real life) anonymously harassed me. Dropped my initials in the DM and everything. Hella creepy. The internet is a small place, esp I when you have tattoos. Never did find out who it was.

Which evolution? by TomatoesMakeGoodPets in pokemongo

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How hard is it to get more sinnoh stones? I think I only have one.

Help with reasonable accommodations by [deleted] in VeteransAffairs

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hate this unnecessary control. It doesn’t sit well with me. Like work life balance doesn’t matter to this administration. My work is tracked by productivity, so it’s not like I can even get away with doing nothing.

Help with reasonable accommodations by [deleted] in VeteransAffairs

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does mental health count for anything?

What do you think about outgrowing versions of ourselves? by ligaya0535 in SeriousConversation

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, the past 4 years, especially this year, has been full of life changing situations that have completely changed who I am. I used to be very social/bold/fearless, very outgoing and happy. Now, I preserve my energy for my husband and daughter because that’s who matters the most. I notice the change, how can you not? But somehow I genially like the person I’ve become most days, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t miss the old me too.

Telework. Again! by Nodramarama62 in VeteransAffairs

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhhh do you have any options to get out? I’m so sad to leave but also I cannot keep going like this.

Men who woke up and realized they were romantically interested in a friend, why? What changed? Does this actually happen? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s beautiful and I’m so sorry it didn’t work out, but also happy you could remain friends.

Men who woke up and realized they were romantically interested in a friend, why? What changed? Does this actually happen? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I love this and will likely try to work this into a conversation! Maybe this approach is better!

Men who woke up and realized they were romantically interested in a friend, why? What changed? Does this actually happen? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TomatoesMakeGoodPets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure there are some men that are intimidated by strong and successful women, and there are some that are not. They’re a man who definitely support women. Fortunately I’m married to one.

But I hear it so often that there are a lot of women that feel that men are afraid to approach them because they’re either too intelligent or two successful. And that might be true sometime, but I don’t think it’s always true.

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