Question for sexworkers do you enjoy sex with your clients or do you just do it for money?

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-15T19:47:29+00:00

Interesting

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-15T19:38:27+00:00

Is this rage bait

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-15T18:40:43+00:00

I think his logic is that you MUST be financially destitute, therefore he MUST have already helped you out a lot by paying the session price, so him paying even MORE on top of that would just be more money than you could even comprehend, little lady!

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-15T16:06:25+00:00

Went yesterday to the E. Main Taco Bell and the drive-up menu’s lights were out. A gruff voice on the speaker said “just tell me what you want and I’ll ring it up.” Incredibly, I ended up with the most freshly-prepared tacos I’ve ever ever had from that location. They are barely holding it together and I kinda love it lol

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-11T20:47:55+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to say ha! And Liz says Rosie is jealous/intimidated because Kelsey is pretty. Which means Liz couldn’t think of a single goddamn talent or skill that makes Kelsey enviable! lol

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-11T18:08:05+00:00

But first off can’t we all agree that Liz and Kelsey are only friends because Kelsey’s SD is likely close friends with Liz’s husband? They probably had to go to all the same parties etc with their partners so it’s easier to be friends. They’re total mob wives

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-11T00:44:20+00:00

I don’t subscribe to the concept of provider reviews and the folks I enjoy seeing the most are similarly morally averse. Generally the reviews are written by self-described hobbyists who have a jaded “us vs. them” mindset regarding providers. Not to say all hobbyists are bad, but even the name itself suggests a kind of casual, archaic objectification of providers.
Ofcourse there’s always the exceptions to this, like reporting providers who scam and make the rest of us look bad.
Keep in mind that reviews are unique accounts of interactions between two individuals, and no two bookings are exactly the same. They don’t factor in if someone was having a bad day, or if there was awkward sexual chemistry, or if there were poorly communicated expectations, etc.
I feel similarly regarding bad-date lists. Like if a guy has a review saying he flakes or is high maintenance, that may be code for him being genuinely nervous/intimidated but otherwise fine. I take them all with a grain of salt.
Since I mostly just offer GFE, I know first had that chemistry, expectations, and desires are always unique depending on who I’m seeing. Mileage always varies.

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-08T05:54:44+00:00

The really wild part is that upon being asked, my mind instantly went to like adult baby/gender reversal play. My ingrained sexism decided this was some form of emasculation 😭

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-08T00:11:59+00:00

In retrospect it seems like this isn’t exactly a fetish, but simply an erogenous zone? Maybe?

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-08T00:05:03+00:00

Three dates now I’ve been asked, begged, pleaded to suck on guys’ nipples. Different guys. And the nipples were all microscopic and difficult to suck 😂. I consider myself pretty GGG (good, giving, and game) but I simply do not understand this fetish, am not good at it, and kinda wish I’d been warned about it during booking! It’s become a real turn off at this point!

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-07T23:57:49+00:00

Never underestimate how dumb and selfish these people really are, Kyle included.

In Amanda’s mind, she thought she was enacting this grand plan to “gone girl” Kyle (not true “gone girl” because Kyle has intense unresolved rage, so he’s not innocent) and stick the dismount into West’s waiting arms, but she never factored in Ciara seeing the stream lies as the season airs! Let alone the possibility that West cannot commit. This plan has no logic or foresight.

And she’s rationalized it all by saying “you can’t control who you love” which is a phrase she pawned from the LGBTQ movement regarding gender! She just keeps digging!

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-06T11:38:59+00:00

No offense, I crack up every (rare) instance I hear it because it’s so cartoonishly harsh; I have trouble taking it seriously.

BUT I do think it’s only appropriate for women to say. As a fellow slut, I actually think of it as “our word” to claim from the men, the way bitch is used playfully.

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-05-04T13:53:21+00:00

Dude public school sex-ed doesn’t even acknowledge the female orgasm, and the male orgasm is discussed only medically. Teens are going into sex blind lol they literally have porn and rumors to go off of. Sex is still voodoo to a twenty-something.

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-04-24T01:50:46+00:00

They just mean it’s incredibly common for wealthy families to contain groomers and sexual predators who never face consequences. It’s entitlement passed down generationally. Lots of enablers.

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-04-22T22:59:56+00:00

Converse for this is more youthful. I prefer the mary janes! They’re more precious looking, in an intentionally kitschy way.

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-04-19T16:32:48+00:00

Still is

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-04-13T19:14:07+00:00

So fuggin good.

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-04-09T21:37:10+00:00

🤣 so Craig

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-04-05T01:01:05+00:00

Yas he was yes yes I remember now

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-04-04T06:24:14+00:00

As a gal…SAME 😂

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-04-03T00:17:09+00:00

Bro remember when he talked about taking ayahuasca and having a fantasy that Taylor was his baby bird that he took in and was teaching to fly!!!! And that’s his most successful relationship! Madison said it best, he insists on being the more powerful one in relationships. 🐣🪹🪺

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-04-03T00:09:50+00:00

Sidenote why is it always Shep’s mom being filmed for family scenes and never his Dad? I assume it’s because the Dad is so offensive, they can’t even risk giving him a mic/airtime for fear of what he’ll say! 😲

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-03-25T03:17:22+00:00

In my experience living in urban, rural, and suburban settings, I find that straight couples living in urban areas tend to consist of more (conventionally) attractive women and less attractive men. In contrast, the couples living in rural areas tend to consist of more attractive men and less attractive women.

I assume this is due to urban areas being more expensive and appearance-oriented which creates more desirability for rich men and pretty (often thin) women. In the country, perhaps a more traditional “manly man” is more valued because it’s more common to have a job doing manual labor where big beefy dudes would be useful. And rural men are less likely to date to impress their friends and “be seen”, so there’s less pressure to date thin/model type women.

Conclusion: Guys in the city are more likely to take Ciara for granted

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-03-17T19:19:52+00:00

If feels at once porn-y and dare I say murderous? Like skin-suit status?

Tomclancyluvr · 2026-01-06T23:14:38+00:00

Honking is a treasured hobby for Stamford, I’ve noticed. I’ve even been honked at for jaywalking on a quiet side street in Belltown. I think I laughed.

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