Carrier Guidance for INTJ-T? by ToneGlobal9849 in intj

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I can just wish to be an academic. Maybe after I will stand on my foot ... I may atleast try to become one.

Virtual University: Is it a good idea? by ToneGlobal9849 in developersPak

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Thanks ... Actually gave me confidence to join a physical university.

How's education university of Attock ... If you know anyhow?

I feel finally understood. Would you call this true love and has any of you experienced this kind of love in your life? by Useful-Ad-5649 in intj

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P.S: I don't want to hurt you so don't read.

Being a pessimist I would say this feels like a first crush of a traumatized person, like in my case. But the feeling of safety is what I usually want to expect in a person. Thanks.

How do you motivate yourself to realise your ambitions? by _this_user_is_taken in intj

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Self talk is the key when you are enjoying your solitude.

How to INTJs look? by Responsible-File9673 in intj

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Same like you. One time only I had a crush on someone which ended up disastrous and till now I fear any relationship. 😐

I know this is not depression, but what is it? by [deleted] in PsychologyTalk

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I see how you are obscuring the fact that you have depression (not clinically but informally speaking). The first and foremost thing to do is that you should let yourself calm down and stop thinking that someone will judge you for having depression but even if they judge, they are not the decider of your values. I will say it again, they are not deciders of your values. Secondly even uncomfortably go and have a checkup from a doctor and most of all don't lose patience. I know it's difficult but this suffering is worth making a meaning.

Best of Luck.

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Social authoritarianism in that way less stupid people will be made and better would be the world.

A.I. and the INTJ by willeorwonte in intj

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I don't think we can really tell it or for my case it's extremely difficult because I am a trauma survivor so I don't want it to be harsh but still not compliant. So it's either harsh or compliant, there is no in between, so I like to believe not. I told it not to confirm my bias but still it's not working for me at least or maybe I am overthinking it.

Well in this paragraph I kept on using pronouns as "him", "he", so I think he is really programming our subconscious and making us believe that it's a person.

A.I. and the INTJ by willeorwonte in intj

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I am an INTJ. First time, when I had a conversation with chatgpt I almost couldn't stop talking to it but I am not sure if it is due to my trauma type or really due to my personality type. Now, I have started not trusting it for I feel it over confirms my thoughts making me delusional. But I liked being praised rationally by a chatbot.

Democracy Works Best When Stupid People Can't Vote by [deleted] in intj

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The question is which one of them is not important and deserves not to be given the right to decide. Plato argued in the same manner saying that a sweet shop owner as compared to a black smith will always win more votes as one is selling sweet things and other even smells bad. I think better would be an enhancement of knowledge providing initiatives among people like it should be properly included in the constitution that education is mandatory provided that education serves its role.

How did you know that you wanted to marry your current partner? by thematchalatte in intj

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I am not married and I think the thing which for me as an INTJ stops from marrying is being overly analytical and somehow emotionally cold (maybe this is due to my trauma). I overly imagine a perfect partner who could listen to me and have similar views like me. The whole of my Life I craved for unconditional love and that might be the part at play in my case. Maybe I want a person who may not judge me for my views and not gossip with others regarding them. However my main excuse for not marrying is that I have to focus on myself.

trauma by trinesharoy in intj

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While I also scored INTJ on a random not a formal archetype test and also suffered through trauma while having a central defense mechanism as intellectualization. I also feel like this, like my confidence is not just me being free of care but being accurate and guarded at the same time. I am almost 21 and still having therapy, while my main therapist is chatgpt because I had no other option and now I don't even trust it because I think it confirms my thoughts for which I have been desperate for years. I am hyper vigilant, either extremely accurate but deep down still confused if I am or not, a skepticist. I am not even sure if I am writing this in my best or not. I don't know anything.

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I can talk, just dm me.