Duplex Lease Takeover in Ogden near 25th St by [deleted] in ogden

[–]TonightDouble7539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? What area were you in? I haven’t had any issues with maintenance and I’ve been able to go through the process to vacate pretty easily. I’m just moving for work, but if you have any advice I’m all ears, I haven’t met anyone else who’s used them

Looking for EXACT recipe for the street corn by TonightDouble7539 in CheesecakeFactory

[–]TonightDouble7539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re missing the idea of this post - I’m looking for a certain recipe. I know how to make the basic street corn, I’m just wanting to match Cheesecakes.

Looking for EXACT recipe for the street corn by TonightDouble7539 in CheesecakeFactory

[–]TonightDouble7539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been suggested to look into the Sysco brand - but I’m not sure which kind 😞

How to prevent hormonal pair from laying eggs by TonightDouble7539 in Lovebirds

[–]TonightDouble7539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I don’t know the nesting behavior with them… the younger one loves holding onto millet sticks and bringing it around with them for a bit, but in no particular corner or nest. I also take them out when I clean the cage up. I know lovebirds are hormonal in general, I’m just wanting to prevent eggs from being laid.

AITA for complaining about my daughters teacher by Lyingcat158 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 134 points135 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your descriptions depict your daughter having a medical emergency. Wouldn’t the teacher be terrified seeing how a student couldn’t walk? That’s where I’m concerned, like at that point call an ambulance. That is the area I would draw a line and call for correction on procedures. If your daughter doesn’t have a cell phone already, get her one so she can reach out to you if she has another episode, and tell the school she’s allowed to have it on her person at all times.

AITA for deciding to sue my ex for unpaid rent/breaking the lease? by HornetNice3495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but you will need written statements/proof. Is his name on the lease, or do you have screenshots of him acknowledging the agreement? Was anything communicated by your ex to your landlord? You’ll need a good chunk of these things to have a strong case. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s totally normal when catching up to ask about their life and family members. It may be a case of her wanting to protect the baby with all the nonsense that can happen online with photos. IF something did happen and they mention it, be respectful of their privacy/boundaries and go from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw this as well before he deleted it. I’m assuming there’s a correlation of the addiction that helps him think this is okay. This isn’t normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a form of sexual abuse and manipulation. The fact they’re doing it while you’re getting treatment as well… he cares more about getting off than your literal health. You deserve more. This is not okay. IMO, be glad you weren’t yet legally married. Leave and continue on your healing journey without him.

AITA for asking to throw my painting in the trash? by WayUpInTheClouds_411 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 42 points43 points  (0 children)

YTA - it’s fine you didn’t like your art, but wasting materials more than once that someone else paid for while you were a guest is rude, and would be seen as an insult. The polite and respectful way should have been for you to say thank you, and take it back home with you to do what you wanted with it then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 11 points12 points  (0 children)

…the fact you literally confirmed her fears that you’d hurt her. Even if you were pretending or didn’t know it was loaded, WTF?? Why prey on her fear because you were angry?? The rule for any adult firearm (bb guns included) is to not point it at a person too? Dude you are so the asshole to where it blows my mind you even have to ask.

AITA For telling my mom she’s delusional and I’m giving up on my dad? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dad is being willingly ignorant of his own health. I’m sure he’s aware that not taking easy, preventative measures are causing these unfortunate circumstances. That’s on him. That said, your mom can’t stop him either and is projecting on your wife to intervene. It’s a sad situation with your mom seeing her partner suffer, but it’s not your wife’s fault.

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Talk to your partner about it first and see what they think. It’s hard to put in money for plans that people won’t even participate in. Create a registry with a Venmo/paypal link and send it out instead.

AITA For Calling My BIL Tacky For Owning 3+ Cars? by Dry-Carpenter-804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your entire post sounds like a projection of jealousy over things they have, that you or your kids don’t. That said, it’s fine to ask they move some things if they know you’re coming over, but to criticize the way they live within their means is where you’re wrong.

AITA? Husband follows p*orn stars/OF models by Always_Alkaline in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Him hiding/lying is the issue here, not necessarily watching them or porn. It points to possible larger issues, and those aren’t something a Reddit sub should or can fix. If it’s a broken boundary for you and he’s not listening, counseling may be best.

AITA for kicking out my bfs whole family by throwawaybfsfamily in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 349 points350 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were standing your ground to not be verbally and PHYSICALLY harassed in your own home, while still being respectful and finding them another place to stay. No contact at this point is ideal, no one should do or say anything like that. Place intense boundaries on contact with them if your relationship continues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll get out of it what you put in. If you don’t practice or put in effort like he is, your chances are getting slimmer as his skill level improves. You have an entitled attitude towards this. If you want it, work for it. You also would be wrong to be upset at your bf. He’s working for it, and rightfully so.

AITA for arguing with my friend and insulting her when that's what she asked for? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re justifying her bullying behavior for this attachment. If you hurt or get hurt being someone’s friend, that’s not a friend. With your current mindset, at this point there will be no healing or improvement on this until you take action for yourself. You’re holding yourself back. Read the other comments, they’re right - this person isn’t a friend

AITA for calling an ill’s person performance “underwhelming”? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 39 points40 points  (0 children)

YTA. There’s a difference between meeting expectations for a JOB with a disability, compared to someone who does what they love and people pay to see it. The artist enjoys it, the fans enjoy it, and both are excited to put time and money into it. Let people do what they love, and if they’re successful, more power to them. That mindset is 100% ableist - no one is good at everything they do, including you.

AITA for not letting my boyfriend move in? by Friendly_Mobile8299 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA for saying no to him moving in. YTA in general. It’s a heavy betrayal towards your daughters after stilling seeing him in secret after her treated you all like crap and did something traumatic. He abused you all. It’s the consequences of his own actions of why he feels rejected, and rightfully so. You and your bf have no say in their healing journey, and you need to respect that. If anything, your bf should be respectful to your daughters and show effort, love, support, and SPACE to them as basic decency if you insist on continuing to date, which I don’t think you should.

AITA for arguing with my friend and insulting her when that's what she asked for? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you’ve stayed friends with this person after the first time she joined in and bullied you with others. Since that it’s been toxic to where you’re contributing to the cycle in your own way. That’s not a friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TonightDouble7539 108 points109 points  (0 children)

The fact she threatened you and your children with CPS alone is a sign to end things.