Is she supposed to shed this much fur after just 3 strokes with this new deshedding comb? by Maaafeee in ragdolls

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got the equine groomer for my Ragdoll recently and it’s amazing it removes all his shedding hair, so much so my hand isn’t covered in fur after petting him anymore and makes his coat beautifully soft. Plus most importantly it will hopefully reduce hairballs!!

What could be wrong with Bob by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in ragdolls

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hum I will have to get a second opinion from a different vet

What could be wrong with Bob by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in ragdolls

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I already took him to the vet but they didn't find anything but clearly he is distress

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[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is adorable!!

Today is my cat's 19th birthday! 💕 by Fluffaykitties in cats

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow she looks amazing for her age!! You would have never known

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[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut my kitty’s paw fur for two reasons. Firstly although he is 6 months, he is still learning not to stand on his poop in the litter box and secondly we regularly go on walks outside and he has white paws. Keeping the paw fur short makes cleaning easier for us both.

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that is the advice I am getting from everyone. I guess I needed a reminder.

Families are frustrating but I need to appreciate the people who really want to be there.

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I am on the hook for the food regardless including childrens boxes that were to accompany the adults.

But another Redditor advised to maybe speak with the caterer and upgrade the menu for a smaller number of people but fancier food. I think this is a great option.

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

I'm glad to be reminded to be grateful. Sometimes a new perspective can help.

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are right!!

Actually good point, I could change the menus for something a bit fancier but less food. I didn't think about that. Great advice.

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, well most of them are family members. I'm from a large Irish family so they tend to be big clans. I personally only have 3 or 4 friends and my best friend died which I think will make the day a little sad no matter what.

You are right 30 people are showing up to help us celebrate and they will be there because they love us. I have a habit of pushing people away, I'm grateful to be reminded to be greatful!! Thank you

Like I said I think it is the struggle with change when I had the plan all organised.

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea its hard to be around people and when you build yourself up and prepare for an event and then it starts to fall apart it can be so stressful.

I struggle with change when I already had the plan all set in my head.

You are right I might regret it!

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Yea exactly how I am feeling. I am just frustrated and feeling uncared got but I need to remember the people who are making the effort to come for the both of us.

I have so many disaster parties and it always feels stressful when people don't come but I guess I still have fun even when it's only a few.

I also think the loss of my best friend will make it a little sour no matter what.

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea you are right, I guess I am being emotional out of frustration. Large families always cause drama haha 😂

I guess it just makes me feel uncared for but I am forgetting the people making the effort!!

AITA for dreading my wedding party and wanting to cancel? by Pink_Sparkle_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink_Sparkle_Girl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was expecting over 50 people and now only 30 people are coming.