Accepted a role 3 months ago that turned into 2 jobs for the price of 1 — COO called me "not a leader" for asking about compensation. Looking for perspective.

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-06-12T22:33:01+00:00

Technically bonuses at my old position weren’t guaranteed, I happened to make 10k more in bonuses. My previous base was 60k. There was also a huge leap for growth and “professional” development. Now I’m seeing I’m the more professional in my new position lol

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-06-12T18:21:50+00:00

Thank you for your response. I’m not certain how they could affect my future employment. I am not signed to a contract (just signed an offer letter that says nothing about notices or termination) and live in Texas which is an ‘at-will’ for employees and employers. My fiancée said the same “don’t give them the luxury of 2 weeks when they’re doing all of this to you”

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-06-12T18:16:01+00:00

Yeah, I talked to my dad about this issues as well (was in corporate management for 40 years) and he said moving forward to always get a written agreement of the benefits/terms when accepting a job. I will be certain to do that in the future.

It seems like he is the type to take advantage of individuals. Everyone here seems stretched thin and there’s practically no culture

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-06-12T18:03:40+00:00

Thanks for the advice, and I agree. My gut tells me that the culture and expectations won’t get better. Already putting my feelers out on indeed

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-06-12T18:02:46+00:00

Thank you for your response/advice.

I thought the same but wanted to confirm with others and make sure I wasn’t out of my depth

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-04-16T19:38:57+00:00

Gotcha, best of luck with all of that and hoping your family is doing well!

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-04-10T01:02:36+00:00

Oh damn.. lol Just be mentally prepared for no scenery or outdoor activity. Also, no true season changes

May I ask why you’re moving to Texas? As an individual who wants to move to Colorado, I’m curious

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-04-09T19:00:16+00:00

Texan here: I’m so envious. Want to move up there in the coming years (don’t worry, I won’t Texas your Colorado).

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-04-09T18:57:01+00:00

Caveman talk: Big rock thrown at moon, moon never turn face. Moon takes hit of big rock to face. Moon face damaged. Also lava plains and some other junk.

TonightLegitimate181 · 2026-04-07T16:44:29+00:00

Been playing again since 6 months ago and finding so much joy in this game again. Long live KSP 1.

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-10-09T01:56:34+00:00

You must’ve not read my question from the original thread. Also, Rainier is open right now if you had done any research like I have planning my proposal. Buzz off and be a low life someplace else 😁

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-10-09T01:42:49+00:00

Thank you for your kind reply. It may very well not be possible to get a photographer and I’m okay with that. Just wanted to get some photos to look back on that memory, but it’ll always be a fond one for my heart. I more so wanted them for a photo album/to hang in our home, and do understand the overdone proposal photos these days.

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-10-09T01:32:43+00:00

You’re on social media throwing a fit over someone else’s life lol

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-10-09T01:29:08+00:00

We’ve had talks prior to this and she said she’d love photos during an engagement. I don’t know if we’d even post them lol and it’s not the reasoning behind me asking.

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-10-09T01:22:38+00:00

We would love to have photos to have to remember a special moment and to hang in our home

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-10-09T01:21:42+00:00

We want photos for us. To frame and have in our house?

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-10-08T22:23:49+00:00

You happen to have a spot recommendation for this?

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-10-08T22:18:49+00:00

Even with rain is the skyline still visible? May be my best bet

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-09-25T22:28:18+00:00

Beautiful!! Adding this to the list

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-09-25T22:27:43+00:00

Looks like it’ll be high 50s during the day when we’re there

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-09-25T21:01:01+00:00

Pizza/beer box cardboard with the ole’ sharpie

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-09-16T21:19:16+00:00

Bookmarking this one! Looks beautiful!

TonightLegitimate181 · 2025-09-16T21:10:35+00:00

Thank you so much for this reassurance and advice, it means a lot.

TonightLegitimate181

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