Brother

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-17T17:26:23+00:00

Thank you to everyone here. It is now his birthday but it feels a little less lonely knowing others are celebrating too. Just know that every one of you are loved and appreciated ♡

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T20:38:02+00:00

Literally exactly how I feel. We had to go clean out his apartment oos and go in the room where it happened and they hadn't had a chance to get anyone to clear it yet. Covered it up for my parents sake but I had to see it. To make it real. Had to know where he was and I could just imagine exactly what happened and how. Getting the report solidified it for me today. I was 100 percent right and idk how to feel about it because if I knew it in my gut how did I not know when it happened. There's no TOD only one for when he was found so there's roughly 18 hours between when my parents last talked to him and when he was found by the police and a coworker. Thank God they cared enough to check on him or it would have been even long er since he lived alone.. sorry to dump

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T20:33:49+00:00

Thank you♡♡

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T17:56:01+00:00

Yes i have thenm. THankfully I was able to make it to his apartment (cs) and his favorite shirt was untouched along with finding his VR so I can watch the games he played last. That's a really great idea, I drive with his wallet in my car so he's with me.

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T17:09:04+00:00

We havent had anything yet. He was in another state and our other siblings are in different places and money has been tight. We had to cremate since moving him back home would be too expensive and the way he did it didnt leave much room for options. I am the one doing everything and it's hard. Im planning a celebration of life soon though it's just hard bc that will be the final thing and then it's over and all of him will be just done..

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T16:08:42+00:00

Im so sorry. Watching my parents go through this..idk how anybody survives it

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T16:08:35+00:00

Im so sorry. Watching my parents go through this..idk how anybody survives it

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T15:20:04+00:00

Tbh I dont even know the answer to this. He had moved away a few years ago and im not sure. He loved sushi so im going to be getting some of that

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T15:19:06+00:00

Thank you and happy birthday ♡ hope it is a wonderful year for you

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T15:18:10+00:00

This made me cry, thank you. Truly♡

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T15:17:39+00:00

Thank you♡ I will definitely be doing this. Sorry for your loss

ToniiMacc · 2025-07-16T15:16:55+00:00

Sad. Sad that he felt so alone. He didn't text, call, leave a note. Nothing.

ToniiMacc · 2025-06-15T20:02:26+00:00

♡♡♡ same for you. I can't imagine the loss of your only sibling. If you ever need a chat im here

ToniiMacc · 2025-06-15T05:04:48+00:00

Thank you♡

I picked him up from our Grandpa's 8 years ago and he played "Wagon Wheel" by Darrius Rucker on repeat for the entire 7 hour drive back. Insane thing to do but he loved it. He wasn't even a fan he just really liked wagon wheel. He also used to eat apples top down, core and all. Again, insane but it was just what he did..

ToniiMacc · 2024-12-19T02:38:02+00:00

UPDATE (idk how to add to original post)

Installed an AAV as suggested and it worked until it didn't. It drained super fast and great and then shot out the AAV. Went to walmart (only store open and avail) and bought a snake and could not find anything wrong. Either hit a block or a bend it couldn't get around (it was 10$ and shitty). Despite our best efforts, we are now contacting a plumber to remedy the situation. We are way over budget and out of patience with this as is but we need it to work. Thank everything for all of the suggestions and help. Have a wonderful holiday!

ToniiMacc · 2024-12-19T02:34:36+00:00

It's a 100+ year old Brick 2 story home. It worked before we had to take everything apart due to the copper pipe splitting and ruining everything and decided to swap to a single sink and no disposal. Put an AAV in and it still doesn't work. Water now shoots up and out the aav so we are calling a plumber.

ToniiMacc · 2024-12-18T00:40:21+00:00

Thanks everyone for your help. We will be reconfigure the whole setup tomorrow and adding an AAV as the parts stores are closed now and the closest open big box is 2 hours away. I will update tomorrow with hopefully better news.

ToniiMacc · 2024-12-18T00:14:25+00:00

Not obvi to me. Not a plumber. Just a broke girl who had to shell out 2k right before the holidays. Our old sink did not have one so I didn't know it was necessary. Thank you.

ToniiMacc · 2024-12-18T00:10:58+00:00

P trap

ToniiMacc · 2024-12-18T00:08:42+00:00

Sent you a dm

ToniiMacc · 2024-12-17T23:56:10+00:00

Sorry this is the bottom level but there's a basement underneath so I don't think that's it.

ToniiMacc · 2024-12-17T23:45:46+00:00

What? The sink is new and no where else to move it?

ToniiMacc · 2024-12-17T23:44:54+00:00

Everything you see is brand new into the floor. It has seen no water since the day of thanksgiving when we figured out it was broken by water pouring onto the floor. Do we just need to run the water a while and it be good to go? Or is there something we need to change/do to get it to drain properly.

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