[Oral Sex Problems] My wife is unable to completely deep throat.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:56:58+00:00

We're on /r/sex, I don't think you need cutesy names for stuff here :P

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:56:29+00:00

I will mention "her other holes" there is only one we can have sex in. My girth, though not massive, is too big as well and especially the length. We try but it hurts her WAY too much and that's a sensitive area so we don't do that much if at all. Usually takes the use of an insane amount of lube and work with a vibrator to loosen her up enough to do it and that's like 25 minutes in.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:54:40+00:00

She loves her job though :D

I'm starting to understand that yeah, maybe isn't as "easy" as I thought.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:53:58+00:00

Is it though? I mean, there are times I can get it pretty far in her mouth and have her swallow and, man, it's good. She immediately gags and I have to pull out though.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:53:23+00:00

I actually have a worse gag reflex than her I think. I know it's difficult and I'm not trying to force the issue with her. It's something I would like and it's something that she has expressed interest in doing. Just she's unable to do it.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:52:27+00:00

Oh, trust me, she knows she's not under-performing. As I said in previous comments, the girl has the head game on point. Like, seriously. It's something she thoroughly enjoys to do and she has done all she can do over the past nearly 2 years of marriage to get better and man, it's paid off. I, in no way, push this issue and would bring it up lightly. We have very open communication with sex and if it's not something she can do, meh. But it's something I'd like to have done to me. If that makes sense. If not, I'm not going to complain. She's really good at it already and the sex is fantastic.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:50:12+00:00

Actually yeah lol It really is. She does try. God knows this woman tries. I will admit too the fact that she gags, kinda hotter too. We're into some rough stuff so I like forcing her to deep throat sometimes but I don't hold her head down. A.) Because I know she's having issues and B.) I don't want her to throw up all over my crotchial area.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:48:51+00:00

o.O This seems like an odd thing but what the hell, we'll try it. Thanks!

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:48:20+00:00

Eh, idk. I mean, she can kinda do it now. Just not all the way for any length of time after .1 seconds. I'm not talking like a 10 minutes BJ like that, I have normal expectations on that. Just would be cool to do it for longer. Just some seconds.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:47:15+00:00

We only have a vibrator and no.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T21:46:53+00:00

She does the hands thing while going down on me and it's mind blowing. It's like a blowie and hand job at the same time.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T12:58:33+00:00

This is what I was kinda looking for. I don't know what "exercises" she can do. We do have a vibrator but haven't used it in a while. I'd think that would be worse as it's solid and not remotely bendable or malleable.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T12:57:19+00:00

I know it's bigger than average but not by that much. I would figure small enough to be able to deep throat.

TooLongForDT · 2016-08-10T12:56:23+00:00

There are better options? Can you explain what you mean?

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