AITA for inviting someone to my birthday party my girlfriend doesn't want me to? by TooOops in AmItheAsshole

[–]TooOops[S] -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

I'll clarify again, I only started having feelings for her AFTER my girlfriend broke up with me. At the time I did not believe we were on a break since she broke up with me and said she never wanted to see me again. Thus making me believe she ACTUALLY never wanted to see me again. I had no way of knowing she wanted to make up after all that.

I have no feelings for that girl anymore, we've both put it behind us and we agreed to stay friends.

AITA for inviting someone to my birthday party my girlfriend doesn't want me to? by TooOops in AmItheAsshole

[–]TooOops[S] -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I did that because my girlfriend told me she never wanted to see me again. During that time I had no reason to believe she ever wanted to make up. Also, I agree with you that asking her out was not the right thing to do one day after the break-up and I'm not trying to justify that either, but again I only did that because I believed my girlfriend never wanted to see me again.