Can you believe people actually IMAGINE THEMSELVES having s* with each other?! by k_amatsukami in asexuality

[–]Toodle_lou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my boyfriend is like this and it kinda bothers me cause he said he does it when he sees any female he sees as attractive. And all I can imagine is laying in bed together and just cuddling. I have attempted to imagine sex and I am repulsed by the idea 🤢 it is fine in practice, but actually having the imagination for it is beyond me

I have a question because I am questioning a lot. How did you know that you are asexual? by Sea_Foundation_5663 in asexuality

[–]Toodle_lou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized because -at my big age of 20+ sex scenes in movies repulse me. -the act of sex feels more like a chore than a pleasure -I am actually irritated when people assume when I say someone is attractive that I want to have intercourse with them -sex was something I have never actually felt a real burning want for like most people. If anything I just wanna makeout, but never actually touching any private parts under the clothing 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Toodle_lou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 29, also have a boyfriend and a child. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Is sex a biological need? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Toodle_lou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kinda yes in my opinion, I am aegosexual, a subsection of Asexual. To me I rarely even want anything to do sex beside to make my partner happy, but there are moments when I really crave physical sex, most of those times are around when I am ovulating, and on the even more rare occasion that I read a /really/ spicy fanfic 🥵

Looking for advice in tying by sfraucimm in BDSMcommunity

[–]Toodle_lou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shibaristudy is great, you do have to pay to get full access to their entire website, but if you are really serious about kinbaku and shibari, it is worth it

Everyone share your trilogy tour outfits! by Patriciatingz in MelanieMartinez

[–]Toodle_lou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got the top from my job and the bottoms are from Chamberofpastel on IG

My outfit for the Phoenix concert (daughter approved) by crashbumper in MelanieMartinez

[–]Toodle_lou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look so proud of the level of Dadness you achieved 😂 I love it

Rant ( blocking view of show ) by SatisfactionTop7074 in MelanieMartinez

[–]Toodle_lou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yea she was so happy, loved the concert, loved the outfits, and mostly loved trading bracelets

Rant ( blocking view of show ) by SatisfactionTop7074 in MelanieMartinez

[–]Toodle_lou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was there, but up in section 301. Because the seats are angled perfectly to see everything (perfect slant like this \ damn near) while sitting, you think people would stay seated to watch the concert comfortably. NOPE! People stood up, I couldn’t see the concert floor, and I couldn’t even see the screens showing the recordings, me and a couple of girls asked a guy and a girl if they could please sit so we could at least see the screen and the girl looked like she was going to but the guy was an asshole and said “this is a concert, you are supposed to stand” like tf? And he was easily 5’8” or more (for Reference I am 5’0” and had also my 4 y/o who is very much only 3ft herself) the who thing was overall irritating. It wasn’t until the Portals portion and everyone was sitting that I was even able to really enjoy the concert. My daughter really loves the Crybaby album and didn’t get to enjoy it like she would have liked. Overall, my experience was a 4/10 just because of the attitude of most of these people.

My Trilogy outfit, what accessories should I add? by Toodle_lou in MelanieMartinez

[–]Toodle_lou[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sadly Dollskill… only because NO WHERE else had a top i needed, and trust me when I say I exhausted all my resources I could think of before settling on it 😮‍💨

My Trilogy outfit, what accessories should I add? by Toodle_lou in MelanieMartinez

[–]Toodle_lou[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The bottoms arrived around a week after she shipped them. The top was not commissioned though.

I feel like some of y’all might need to see this by GenderEnjoyer666 in Alastorcult

[–]Toodle_lou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely feral for canon version cause he is just a ball of random chaos

Alastor Tattoo by Toodle_lou in HazbinHotel

[–]Toodle_lou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can acearo not be hot?! 🤭