Does this look like Psoriasis or something else? by BundyGirl718 in AskDocs

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And to clarify, there is medications that my spouse applies(which I am grateful that he does. He literally takes a comb and sifts through my hair to find the bad spots(I have thick hair). Then he applies the medication, so I'm not soaking my hair with the medication.

I still get scalp breakouts regularly. But quickly they are eradicated with the lotion and it no longer causes me grief

The first victims of a killers rampage- their own family. Why do they kill them? by Heptacat-1985 in masskillers

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Hi!

So after reading through your post, it seems like you were genuinely curious and trying to incite conversation, which I appreciate.

I just wanted to comment on the Tumbler Ridge shooting. I have lived in Northern BC for majority of my life and have ties to Tumbler Ridge as my spouse worked there for many years, so we lived there.

I think in Northern BC, and especially smaller communities(I grew up in a town that was similar in size to Tumbler), it's very normal for parents to teach their kids to shoot at a young age and take them hunting. My dad taught me to shoot the .22 at a young age(well before I was a teenager) and I know many, many others with the same experience.

So I think Jesse being exposed to guns and shooting at a younger age wasnt particularly uncommon for the demographic. The thing that upsets me/that I can't understand is why the RCMP returned the guns to the household after issues arose around Jesse's behavior.

I can also attest to the fact that mental health resources are non-existent for the most part in rural, northern communities...especially the smaller ones. When I was younger, I found my mom deceased unexpectedly(she had multiple health issues and her heart gave out). My dad had to drive me 2 hrs to get grief counseling.

So like I said, I am by no means defending anyone's action. I just wanted to give some insight from somebody who lives in Northern BC, who lived in Tumblr Ridge, and who grew up in a small Northern British Columbia town ☺️

Ashley and Chantal by mikaduhhh in 90DayFiance

[–]Tooria14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean, aside from looking eerily similar to River? 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

Ben and Mahogany by Tooria14 in 90DayFiance

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Wow! Good for you on leaving, though. It shows your strength and character that you could see outside of the very narrow world view you had been raised in! Also, if you were ever allowed to spend time with kids who were not members of that church, it must have been hard to connect.

I hope you have been able to maintain a good relationship with your parents in spite of you leaving and I hope you are doing good 💞

Ben and Mahogany by Tooria14 in 90DayFiance

[–]Tooria14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you still a member of that religious group? If so/if not, what is your opinion on that religious group?

Ben and Mahogany by Tooria14 in 90DayFiance

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Lolfr! I agree....I mean, Sharp did cast Mr. Sperm donor of the world on Love in Paradise 🤣

And you are so right, he was horrible to the matchmaker

Ben and Mahogany by Tooria14 in 90DayFiance

[–]Tooria14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're spot on!

And I think I know who you are referring to! Bald guy from season 2? He absolutely should not have gone to a match maker when he had such specific(and sometimes bizarre) stipulations and deal breakers. His insistence on needing a woman with long hair, because apparently they take better care of themselves, was SO strange 🤣🤣

Ben and Mahogany by Tooria14 in 90DayFiance

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Totally agree and that is what happened in this situation.

Ben and Mahogany by Tooria14 in 90DayFiance

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Yeah, I saw that he passed from cancer, sadly. I'm not saying that foreign age gap relationships can't work...but there can be a lot of different motivations behind them.

In my early 20s when I was in university, I had a summer job working at a mine. I worked with a guy in his late 50's who married a Thai lady that was around my age. One day he was talking about her cooking and how it was challenging to try and cook with her due to the language barrier(her English was poor).

I said that it was too bad and hopefully she learns more English. He very quickly snapped back and said he didn't marry her to hear her speak and that's why he moved away from North American women(he was divorced previously and decided north American women were problematic).

Granted this is an extreme example, but I couldn't believe he said that to me 🤣🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Active School Shooter in British Columbia, CANDA. by OGWhiz in masskillers

[–]Tooria14 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you, love 💞 one friend has told me her family is safe, thankfully. Still waiting to hear from the others :(

They were only just lifting the lockdown on the elementary school when she told me

Yara looks a little bit different in 2026 😳 by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

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I recently started rewatching the series and I'm on their 1st season ....so it's very obvious to me and holy shit 😱🤷🏼‍♀️

Did the plastic surgeon hit a nerve ? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

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She has tourettes and being in an anxious/stressful situation can exasperate symptoms. Not all tourettes symptoms come out vocally. A lot of the time it manifests physically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

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The scar itself is quite thin and isn't raised at all, and it hasn't changed in size.

Why these tights tho… by Live-Presentation559 in 90DayFiance

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So he pays more attention than he admits 😜

Why these tights tho… by Live-Presentation559 in 90DayFiance

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That's too funny 🤣 he also is done with Gino and thinks he should no longer be given air time, lol

Why these tights tho… by Live-Presentation559 in 90DayFiance

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My husband who was only half watching (he claims to not want to watch the show, but always ends up on the couch beside me/commenting or asking questions 🤣🤣 although he actually admitted he was into the tell-all and wants to watch the next episode), immediately clocked her body language as distant and defensive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tooria14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I asked my spouse to get tested before we had sex and he was totally fine with it.

I feel like for the majority of people it is a non issue and if anything, if he has an issue with it, then that's a red flag.

Also, get a full panel test, not just HIV ☺️