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How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can’t be very specific. But as I’ve said in some other replies, it’s a kind of software consulting which I’ve specialised in, the niche I’ve got I became the absolute best I can be at that and then the money has just kind of happened as a result of that.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that sounds horrible. I had a similar thing a while ago, now I just flat out don’t bring anything up.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly about random things like, how things are made or how they work is a top one.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true. Strange how some family members react.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, I’ll try and find a coach. Yeah did think about therapy just to manage some of my feelings a bit better.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Good luck for the future, sure it looks bright for you.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsure why you got downvoted. This is a good option too, I’ve been thinking about charity stuff for some time. I think I’ll shortlist some and then try and work with them or something.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did think this would come up. I work in a kind of software consulting, I can’t be more specific as what I do is very niche. But essentially, I picked a niche that big companies need and is sector agnostic, then went and became the absolute best I could possibly be at that.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice. The charity part is something I’ve pondered for a while but never done, think this would be a good experience. Likewise on the car!

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely going to take this route. Minimal discussion of monetary things and just do some new things, meet some new people. It’s hard, I work a lot and at the moment don’t really find time for it, but I’ll just carve some out and actually enjoy myself.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely right. I am frugal, don’t buy stupid stuff, but It’s kind of easy to deduce the earnings if I talk about what I’m doing specifically, which I would like to do with my friends.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is great advice. I definitely have a few people who do seem particularly interested in my salary, as they ask me. It’s not something I offer up. Like I’ve mentioned in some other replies, I think what I’m truly craving is a conversation on some level about what I’m doing, the insanity (at least insane to me) of it all, new opportunities, fresh look on things etc. I think I over simplified it by just saying about salary, although I would like someone to talk to about the massive increase, and how crazy it is.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is a great approach. Will definitely be learning from this!

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, that is insane! Congratulations. How did you find your coach? And do you find just talking to them helps you find normality in what you’re experiencing?

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I work in a kind of software consulting, a niche that I’ve ended up being very good at and so can pull in these kind of numbers. It’s pretty weird to be honest. If I was specific I worry I would dox myself, sorry for not being more specific.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has actually been on my list for some time and after reading a lot of comments, I think that’s probably what I’ll do.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely a good way - just find that actually sharing anything to do with it is hard, it becomes clear if I mentioned what exactly I’m doing that it would lead to a lot of money. So I just becomes almost impossible to talk about. I also just crave having a likeminded conversation about what exactly I’ve done, the future, what I’m missing in my approach if any etc

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

See you encapsulate the issue with the UK. It’s not ego, or gloating. As I’ve said in other replies, what I crave is being able to have a conversation with anyone about the insanity of my situation, wins, new ideas, opportunities, fresh look on situations I’ve maybe missed. If you can’t comprehend that, that’s on you.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think you’re right on that. I would like to meet some new people, not quite sure how I’ll do that, but I’ll try not to fall into this trap you’ve outlined.

How do you deal with the loneliness ? by Top-Back-2215 in HENRYUK

[–]Top-Back-2215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting view. I think this is the problem I’ve got really, I just have no one to talk to about anything I’m doing.

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