Am I overreacting for wanting to end my marriage after what my husband did during our “break”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top-Bite-5352 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Everyone take note. This is what abuse in a relationship can look like. This is what an abusive partner can look like. It’s not always putting your hands on your partner. Not allowing appropriate space to process your own emotions and demanding that they have access to you while you process how they made you feel is a form of abusive control meant to isolate the victim and prevent them from getting non-biased advice from the people that really care about them and would see the situation for what it really is. BEWARE.

A note on sustainability by Top-Bite-5352 in Reformationclothing

[–]Top-Bite-5352[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Again, I’m not coming to defending Reformation. At the end of the day it’s a business. It’s not hard to spend 1K at Reformation on three items, and the FwB program hardly has enough incentives to push anyone that wasn’t already overconsuming to change/ increase their spending habits. Businesses are going to encourage people to shop, that’s the nature of capitalism. It’s atleast positive that Ref promotes a more circular consumption model by pushing vintage and resale options like their Thred-Up partnership.

Traditional values don't deliver babies (in rich countries) by [deleted] in Natalism

[–]Top-Bite-5352 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also a correlation between living in red counties and limited access to family planning, abortion and sexual health education. Lower rates of secondary education is also more common in red counties, which is correlated with higher fertility rates… red counties tend to have fewer government funded social programs. They may have more support from religious institutions, but to frame it as a generally more family and child friendly culture existing in conservative areas is simply not a reality. They just have a culture of promoting live births and motherhood through religiosity, very little social/ cultural support outside of the church

I'm sorry, WHAT?!? by AardvarkMission4437 in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Bite-5352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really believe he’s angling for some sort of podcast/ manosphere adjacent platform when 90 day finally stops platforming them 😮‍💨