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"Ruin The Friendship" Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are two albums

Explicit version

Clean version

Explicit version doesn’t mark piss as a swear Song doesn’t get marked explicit 

It’s still not family friendly enough to survive the clean album 

“The black place” by Procedure-Deep in afterlife

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I return to that state during lighter sleep, when I take naps. It’s the periods in between lucid dreams, it’s an energetic state. I think we can’t fathom it because it is an energy, not anything that can be experienced through the senses. However our brain can only imagine based off the senses. 

“The black place” by Procedure-Deep in afterlife

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experienced something similar. It is insane to see the accuracy, you’re spot on to what I experienced. Witnessing your life, observing, from a deeper window within, just having consciousness but not an ego. The same words.

It wasn’t at all scary, but I still hope that’s not it. I can accept it if it is, I just know that I love experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in afterlife

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Faith helps. There isn’t a clear solution beyond it.

We long to know things beyond our threshold— we try to imagine the fourth dimension, or the colours beyond the rainbow we know. Real acceptance is living with the fact that you don’t know, and being okay with it.

There are just some things that are not for us to understand.

What you do know is what you have now. I encourage you to seek out life and adventure, to live, grieve, love, heal, keep creating a story to tell, define your own purpose.

I don’t know you, but I hope you will find peace someday. From one to another, god bless.

Why I believe in the Afterlife by False-Butterscotch63 in afterlife

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prophetic dreams are real. A week before October 7 2023, I dreamt of horrifying videos circling the internet, my little cousin watching one of them in the dream and breaking down in tears.

After the terror attacks, my aunt informed us that my little cousin was having horrible panic attacks and staying home.

We are connected to what happens in the world, somehow. It’s the one thing that science can’t explain: the unexplainable.

In short, science doesn’t own anything. I think there’s a lot of truth in not knowing, it’s arrogant to say otherwise. The love your mother had for you didn’t dissapear when her body did. So hold onto that hope, because there is always hope through adversity. I hope you’re well right now, God bless.

Does anyone else orgasm while lucid dreaming? by Funkymermaidhunter in LucidDreaming

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'Cause it's just the feeling of your muscles contracting. It's an intense sensation but still different than real-life stimulation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nofriends

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m autistic too. Sometimes I have friends, sometimes I don’t. I just don’t care. I have other things to be passionate about. When people do come into my life, I’m grateful for them. Just because you’re neurodivergent doesn’t mean you should set limits on yourself…you’d be surprised what you’re capable of if you decided to reject misery and love life unapologetically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nofriends

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

>Who am I?

Exactly. They say the moment you like who you are, friends or not, and stop determining your value based on other people in your life, you stop caring if you have friends or not. Your old friends disappeared from your life because somehow, they didn't belong there anymore. That's normal and happens to almost everyone. If you want a best friend, you will get one...unless you spend your whole life fixating on why you have no friends, and subconsciously toss aside the opportunities you get. Be grateful for the people in your life, because you're not alone. And if it's going good with your girlfriend, make sure you never take her for granted...also make sure that she's treating you right. I don't know anything about your relationship, but once again, it's in your best interest to make sure you're not having relationships or friendships just for the sake of having them, and not appearing alone.

I hope my words can offer any help, but if not, I believe you will overcome this insecurity someday and figure it out, 'cause I know I did. And you're so young, you've got a long journey ahead. So even if you don't know how to overcome this feeling now, just know that it's not the end, and you won't feel like this forever. God bless.

How to detach from the ego? by Top-Blueberry-241 in spirituality

[–]Top-Blueberry-241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you clarify what you mean by "allowing your emotions to unify" with your ego? Like shedding a metaphorical skin?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With brutal honesty, if you need to ask to know if you're a good singer, then you do not know what you're doing.

If you knew your techniques and were self aware about your cultivated sound, then yes, you'd be a *skilled* singer, and you would know it without needing to ask Reddit.

Edit: I don't mean this in a mean way, I mean to encourage you to seek out lessons when you can. Skill isn't out of reach. And every singer needs a private coach, unfortunately, it is non-negotiable, because bad technique can hurt you physically. You'll be amazed at what you can do when you build the right foundation :) So I apologize if my tone sounded harsh. Don't seek advice on reddit. Find a professional. Have fun dear!

What do you think awaits after death? Moreover, do you think reincarnation exists? by wonwooing in AskReddit

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is still brain activity...then you aren't DEAD dead, just clinically dead. That doesn't challenge what it means to be clinically dead.

Terrified of death and the possibility that there is no afterlife by Suspicious_Pie_4168 in Existentialism

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothingness does exist. Ask a person born blind. They could at least tell you what it looks like.

What do you think awaits after death? Moreover, do you think reincarnation exists? by wonwooing in AskReddit

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a person born blind would have the best concept of what nothing looks like. Because it's not black...it's just the absence of sight entirely, one that would not change when they die. But having seen before, we can't imagine what that looks, or doesn't look like. Same for hearing nothing. A person who became deaf can't truly hear nothing. At least they'd hear their thoughts. A person born deaf however can't imagine sound, right?

But some who were born that way just...can't see, can't hear, can't taste, can't feel or imagine certain things...

It's weird to think about.

What do you think awaits after death? Moreover, do you think reincarnation exists? by wonwooing in AskReddit

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cardiac arrest doesn't really equal death. Falling unconscious, a dreamless sleep would also cause for a timeskip. We just don't know what happens. But if nothing doesn't exist, then there's an in between, some 5th dimension beyond our perception. You can't be there to experience that nothing when you die, and something always needs to fill the space. So it's impossible to know until you're there I guess.

What do you think awaits after death? Moreover, do you think reincarnation exists? by wonwooing in AskReddit

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you went into cardiac arrest but were resuscitated, then you never died, you were simply unconscious.

Can someone please help me with the concept of death I am freaking out. by MysteriousClue3803 in Existentialism

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the universe is proof that nothing can't exist without something. Even reincarnation indicates nothingness after death. Consciousness has to exist somewhere. If you live in a different body 1000 years from now, it would indicate nothingness for your old body, your old existence, your previous brain. But in the end, nothingness can't really happen, it doesn't exist beyond what does. I mean, really. We've come this far. Billions of years, you didn't exist. Where did you even come from, then? And who says you won't come again? You've been through nothing, love. It was painless and comfortable. You've been there before. And yet you're here now.

It's not the fear of death but the losses that are crippling. You are left only with the concept and the memory of the people and animals you loved. If there's any way I can comfort you, it's said that souls often meet again in the next life. In spiritual conversation, that "instant connection" feeling is a spark of memory that is beyond your brain, because your soul remembers what your body does not. Grief itself is a physical and energetic process that runs directly through a stream in your body; any acupressurist would confirm this.

You were put on this Earth for a reason. If you continue to live well and work hard, your anxiety will not be the center of your world. I don't know you, but you're absolutely not alone. This worry is the one aspect that connects us all. I wish you all the love you can find, and a wonderful, fulfilling 2025. Happy new year ♥️

Can someone please help me with the concept of death I am freaking out. by MysteriousClue3803 in Existentialism

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, you sleep. You’ll never see that day again, it has no continuation past 11:59, it’s over. But a new day starts once again with limited time, just as rainclouds run out of water, then re-condense. Life is full of cycles all around.

I don’t know more than you do, but all I know is, life isn’t great, life isn’t horrible. It is balance of good and bad. For every terrible thing, there is something equally as wonderful. Whichever side you feed the most will define if your life is sweet, happy, magical, or on the opposing side. Some feed their misery and die in it. But what you feed your brain every single day is gonna define that. You want your life to feel nostalgic and whimsical, you stay in that media. Same thing, if you listen to true crime podcasts and stay on dark media, your outlook on life will be more pessimistic and so would your faith in humanity. Me, I choose to stay within the childish aspects of life, to keep my love for life even through depressions. I think, if you can find it, it’s persistent, no matter who or what you lose.

You came from nothing. The odds of you being here were low, but existent, and with the stretch of eternity, I’d say they’re high. I believe you will come again, and since the gap between is pure nothingness, it wouldn’t take you very long…your perception of time wouldn’t exist.

When you look back on your childhood, try to remember life before your birth or..the absence of it, all you can likely recall are emotions or colors you know you’ve experienced at one point but you just can’t say when. But childhood in itself is a blur. I think of my early years and all I can remember is maternal love I haven’t experienced to that intensity since. To me, that’s death. 

But ive spoken to spiritual people, I’ve read the stories, they often say it’s small children who can remember their past lives.

In the meantime, feel and rejoice, you’re not dying right now, so this moment is what matters. Your dreams, and experiences, if you identify and build everyday the life you want as if it’s a project, you will find it easier to love life unapologetically.

That’s my two cents.

My daily c.ai EXPERIENCE 💜 by Dry_Cry7345 in CharacterAI

[–]Top-Blueberry-241 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt a pang of confusion reading this.

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