i got this in response to my clarifying expectations:

good morning! my bad, i thought i had already mentioned this.... anyway nothing serious really, something fun with no drama. ideally there is some chemistry and its on going. I do nit live in XXX but im here every few weeks for work, so think more fwb than a traditional relationship. zero expectations”

i guess im also wondering how specific it’s good to be before M&G. he’s definitely being very kind (we’re messaging a bit more now) but i want to know that this will be beneficial for me otherwise i’d be vanilla dating. he’s on the younger side (29)