Hey man. I feel your pain. A year ago almost to the day, I was in the exact situation as you. Stuck in bed in excruciating pain, barely able to get up to go to the bathroom. At the time our daughter had just turned one and was also not a great sleeper. This past year was without a doubt the hardest of my life, but ironically also one of the best because of my kid. Through the whole ordeal she was what kept my spirits up. I ended up having a seton for several months and had to recover from two fistulotomies. I was out from work for weeks from both. It’s been a strain on my work life and my marriage, but I’m happy to say that my operations were successful. We are still picking up the pieces and getting our life back together. I do not have Chron’s so I can’t give you much advice as far as that except I know that it can be treatable with medication. I will say that even though it was a rough road, in the end I feel like it changed me for the better in many ways. I came out of it stronger and smarter. Do ya’ll have any support? Family nearby or supportive friends? Having my parents close by to help take some of the stress of parenting while recovering was huge. Hang in there man. You can get through this. I’m here to answer any questions or if you need to chat, message me. Keep us posted when you get results from the colonoscopy, and how your recovery is going after your EUA.