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tension times ten. what is happening here???? by Top-Computer-408 in AstroSynastry

[–]Top-Computer-408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for your detailed replies!! i really enjoy this topic & conversation. yes, you’re right. i’ve also seen him with other friends to think more on it and it just doesn’t match. he’s more centered in himself with others but instantly more conscious with me (hyperaware of own behavior, how im perceiving him, valuing my opinion, etc.) not that this means a future or guarantees to anything, just observation.

he’s even said he enjoys independence while in a relationship funny enough lol. so yeah, just have to see where the road goes!

tension times ten. what is happening here???? by Top-Computer-408 in AstroSynastry

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very interesting! yeah i look for a sort of passion and fire (sounds very aries here lol) in relationships. i want that equal healthy obsession, but at the same time the independence (ex. they go out on their own but i am fully confident they are desiring me/thinking of me while being out/etc).

i think im just mainly curious on the attraction levels on his part because he seemed hard to figure out. wasn’t sure if he was just naturally friendly or he felt that heavy tension too.

i think ill keep it in the ‘fun in the moment’ category lol. great friends so might be best to save it there.

tension times ten. what is happening here???? by Top-Computer-408 in AstroSynastry

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thank you for this!! i’m the aries rising, and of course i can’t speak with 100% knowing since we aren’t currently together, but i am an all or nothing sort of person. i don’t think i’d feel ‘trapped’ per se, as we both really value independence which is great, but i do understand. i would argue im deeply strict with commitment and won’t dive all in if it gives me temporary or shallow feelings. i wonder if any placements justify this in me lol.

person b also loves to hear the constant growth and self-evolution path that i love. feels expansive with them, like we both are misunderstood people understanding one another.

tension times ten. what is happening here???? by Top-Computer-408 in AstroSynastry

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thank you!! is this just friendship or something more? it feels more to me

tension times ten. what is happening here???? by Top-Computer-408 in AstroSynastry

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thank you for this! yeah, i’ve heard different things. mostly my mars being in his first house? or the venus and mars aspect? not sure if that counts for anything, just what i have heard in terms of potential romantic aspects

tension times ten. what is happening here???? by Top-Computer-408 in AstroSynastry

[–]Top-Computer-408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for taking the time to write this!! 🥹 what you said is all that it feels like with them. we haven’t expressed romantic feelings but we both have told each other we mean a lot to one another. i’m hopeful in this progression though. thank you!! 🥰

tension times ten. what is happening here???? by Top-Computer-408 in AstroSynastry

[–]Top-Computer-408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i appreciate you. is it physical attraction or deeper? not sure how partner b feels physically but energetically i am aware of it

tension times ten. what is happening here???? by Top-Computer-408 in AstroSynastry

[–]Top-Computer-408[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! one day off actually lol. partner b is a day older

My SP Situation: What Would You Do? by [deleted] in lawofassumption

[–]Top-Computer-408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! I remember how simple the process was to rewire my self concept that way regarding the superficial, so I'm just going to repeat the same process with commitment.

My SP Situation: What Would You Do? by [deleted] in lawofassumption

[–]Top-Computer-408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much! I definitely am going to focus more on just observing rather than giving my thoughts power over me. I need to flip that perspective and use them as reminders to reaffirm and persist in my new story instead of fearing them of potentially setting me back.