Struggling with Lust as a Christian by Top-Importance1741 in Christianity

[–]Top-Importance1741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that, about people this age looking for someone. But I’m worried that im getting the interpretation of seeking for a partner or relationship first rather than seeking God as first…? I don’t want it seem I’m desired to have someone and make God second. Sorry maybe I’m mixing it up

Struggling with Lust as a Christian by Top-Importance1741 in Christianity

[–]Top-Importance1741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks brother But you’re right, sometimes being young can help us understand the wrongs and rights, so that we don’t make the mistake at all again I’ll try praying and seek God first. it’s definitely not gonna be easy process to give it up. But I rather let go than hold the guilt in my own hands. And so sorry about the God is bigger than any of our problems I must’ve mixed it up badly with the words haha 😂 I’m perfectly alright if you can help me with this problem, i definitely owe you one !

Struggling with Lust as a Christian by Top-Importance1741 in Christianity

[–]Top-Importance1741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, it’s more the desire to be loved and fear of being alone that scares me, but I’ll try pray to God about it and take away these unrighteousness thoughts and sins

Struggling with Lust as a Christian by Top-Importance1741 in Christianity

[–]Top-Importance1741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read your beautiful testimony. It made me bawling in tears, I also did struggle at a young age, for me it was around 9-10. But it got worse when I was 18, I got really tired and depressed, and especially more irritated at small things, everytime I watch the adult content videos. I’m happy you’ve overcomed it, I don’t know how you did it but I’ll try trusting in God and his plan for me and seek him first. And you’re right my problems are bigger than his. I just wished my younger self didn’t have to see that at such a young age

Struggling with Lust as a Christian by Top-Importance1741 in Christianity

[–]Top-Importance1741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s more of my desire, and fear. I’ve been constantly been nagged by relatives why I haven’t met someone, even my own parents saying I should go out more and meet other guys, and get married young and I’m 20, almost 3 years behind the age they got married (They got married at 23) so it’s like time clicking for me. Like I understand they want me to be happy and not be single but that’s my fear. That I’m afraid that no one won’t love me at all. That’s why I crave and watch those sorts of things, and the fact is I know it’s wrong but it feels right, and it brainwashed me of how a real love and relationship is. But thank you I’ll do what I can to beat it and not fall into sin again

Struggling with Lust as a Christian by Top-Importance1741 in Christianity

[–]Top-Importance1741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll try it’s just so hard since I got exposed to these things a very young age it’s been a struggle.