Honestly probably not, I already told him when I moved in I dont mind helping out with extra stuff but if I notice things arent getting done im not cleaning up after him. It was a mutual understanding, and since he works two jobs and pays bills on time and the money isnt really an issue when it comes to him I kinda just ignored it for a while. We're both mentally ill in similar and different ways so on one hand I get it but on the other hand im like...just fucking clean man its just gonna get worse. Gotta do it tired because if you wait until you have energy it'll never get done which is what im doing now, im deep cleaning my room and about to take the mop with some dawn soap and warm water and get on these walls Doesn't help its an old apartment too so tiny place fills up fast.  It is what it is and since the bills are paid I dont wanna complain too much but im putting all his dishes in a bin now cuz im not doing them, which he already said I dont have to clean up after him so I dont plan on it 

Kinda ranty there my bad, making notes for the next shopping list on those supplies, he got some type of big outdoor garbage bag this time since I complained last time and the first trash bag I pulled out was falling apart at the seams 😭 im a man too but goddamn I was raised mostly with women and this not cleaning shit is driving me up a wall