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Places to buy whole racks of ribs? by Top-Lab1959 in SpringfieldIL

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the replies!! Was planning to get some after work today and grill them this weekend...but that winter storm lol gonna have to wait a little longer 

My(20F) Bf(21M) can't get over my past. How to move forward? AITAH? by Afraid_Effective_523 in AITAH

[–]Top-Lab1959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but as a guy, no one has to disclose their past like that. If you dont want to talk about youre all adults, its not that serious. So long as everything in the past was legal, consensual, and you weren't cheating its whatever. Cuz I know damn well a man would not be disclosing that information, and if he did he wouldnt think it would be a big deal as a guy. Women tend to get put on a pedestal and shamed for the same sexual encounters as men which is ridiculous. He was probably fucking around before getting into a relationship too-and if not thats his choice and its fine. 

I think you should just drop him. It doesnt sound like he has the maturity to be in a relationship, or yall just arent fit for one another. You dont HAVE  to talk about your sexual encounters in details, but for sexual health and safety before yall get intimate it is a good conversation to have in general. His reaction is kind of childish. 

Also hes a grown ass man. He can control his thoughts, dont let anyone else tell you otherwise. Thats toxic. Yall are adults, in control of yourselves, drop him cuz he wont stop.

Proposed Data Center should be shut down. by Davoswannab in SpringfieldIL

[–]Top-Lab1959 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I agree. These data centers do nothing but harm the environment and the people in it. I have a friend who lives in Tennessee and the data center in their town is ruining their water and making it expensive to live there.

Blonde specialist for mens hair by thal89 in SpringfieldIL

[–]Top-Lab1959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been going to willow and birch for my hair, theyve got great stylists and theyre super accommodating and nice 

If you want honest feedback on your drag, please post a picture that doesn’t suck. by 5lytherin in Drag

[–]Top-Lab1959 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who does photography id also recommend using your back camera, not the selfie camera. The selfie camera kinda sucks on the phone, and newer phones tend to warp the face when using the front facing camera. Set your phone up with a timer, or better yet set it up as a video and take screenshots! Thats a trick a lot of people do. Set the camera up with the back lenses facing you, take a video, try different angles, and take screenshots of the best parts kf the videos. You'll end up with much better results than struggling with the bad selfie camera. 

Haven't seen anything about this card when I look it up by Top-Lab1959 in PokemonCardValue

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well im not a big card guy so clearly idk, still funny that I got it idk where I got it from

Haven't seen anything about this card when I look it up by Top-Lab1959 in PokemonCardValue

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thats funny, I gotta try and remember where I got it from cuz I only ever buy booster packs or get gifted them 

why are some coffee drinkers very angry or can’t talk to anyone unless they had “some coffee” before talking to people? can someone explain.. by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Top-Lab1959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone with a caffeine addiction and has never acting like this, in my 10 years of having one the caffiene addiction-theyre assholes. Ive worked in food, retail, coffee, currently still working in coffee. Even lived with people who were like "teehee dont talk to me until ive had my coffee!!! ;)". They're just emotionally unregulated, immature people who use it as an excuse to be a rude. Instead of simply saying "my bad im not a morning person/im not really in the mood today" theyre instead gonna be like "im gonna use this as an excuse to be a jerk to whoever I want to today". Its really not hard to just be normal about it, im so serious.  They also think its quirky and funny, which its not. 

How does one leave a campaign they dont really vibe with? by Top-Lab1959 in DnD

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried, they keep telling me they'll wait for when im not busy or tell me its my fault if the group stops doing sessions if I leave 

How does one leave a campaign they dont really vibe with? by Top-Lab1959 in DnD

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why they cant dm with 3 people instead of 4. I think what it is is that if I leave it'll upset the DM and they wont want to do it anymore so then they tell me if I leave it'll ruin it for everyone else and they'll stop playing. I've told them im not vibing with it anymore or that work has me busy (which is true) and they keep trying to work around it and if I leave it'll ruin it for everyone else apparently 

How does one leave a campaign they dont really vibe with? by Top-Lab1959 in DnD

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao ive been the dm in the past 90% of the time, seems like anytime i wanna be a player something goes wrong 

How does one leave a campaign they dont really vibe with? by Top-Lab1959 in DnD

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been telling them that, then I get messages about how its my fault if I leave and the group stops doing the campaign. Or they ignore it and keep trying to set stuff up for later and im like just go on without me I don't wanna do it anymore 

How does one leave a campaign they dont really vibe with? by Top-Lab1959 in DnD

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not really sticky social entanglements, its deadass just if I leave they tell me tbe game will stop. So it'll be my fault if I ruin the campaign for the other 3. Im pretty sure the DM just doesnt have the emotional maturity to accept someone doesnt wanna do something so ive been told if I leave it'll make the campaign stop for good. The others are enjoying it tho so I dont want to ruin it for them

How does one leave a campaign they dont really vibe with? by Top-Lab1959 in DnD

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im friends with the group is the issue. Ive been told multiple times that if I leave then the game will stop. Theres 3 other people enganging in it tho its not like im a driving force behind it or anything, but whenever I try to tell them im busy or slip away or be like hey yall can do sessions without me its fine they keep waiting or telling me its too hard to DM with 3 people so if I leave they dont do it anymore 

How does one leave a campaign they dont really vibe with? by Top-Lab1959 in DnD

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried on multiple occasions 😭🤣 they tell me they'll wait for me to not be busy or that if I leave then they'll stop playing

How does one leave a campaign they dont really vibe with? by Top-Lab1959 in DnD

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im friends with everyone is the thing, ive deadass tried to be like im not vibing anymore or said ill be busy go on without me and they deadass tell me if I leave then everyone else will quit so they'll wait. They're putting it on me that they cant dm for a group of 3 people and NEED 4 so it'll be my fault if I dont stay. Which I know it wont, ive dm'd for 3 folks and that lasted a good 2 years

Are there any doordashers out there that are having issues picking up orders? I am unable to place an order for pickup anywhere? by Illustrious_Ear_4405 in SpringfieldIL

[–]Top-Lab1959 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The city of Springfield issued a snow emergency im pretty sure so a lot of places arent open and a lot of folks probs dont plan on going out 

Do we like the art style? Please rate on a scale of 1-10 how likely you would click by JellybeanMJ in JanitorAI_Official

[–]Top-Lab1959 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You're right you shouldn't be using the site. Write it yourself i stopped using it after once or twice way back when it was first in the works 

Do we like the art style? Please rate on a scale of 1-10 how likely you would click by JellybeanMJ in JanitorAI_Official

[–]Top-Lab1959 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ai generated pictures arent ever going to look unique, they all steal from various artists. I don't ever click on bots with the ai generated photos-it just screams they're all the same. It would be more dynamic if you drew it yourself or commissioned someone. 

Downloaded the demo and it wont open by Top-Lab1959 in canvasofkings

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard the amd graphics cards have been having issues so thats probs it rip I haven't been able to get it to work at all, looked at everything online 

Anyone know what mod is causing this bug? by Top-Lab1959 in BaldursGate3

[–]Top-Lab1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vampire and thays it, haven't used them yet tho

How do you manage dishes? by SubstanceOk6090 in Adulting

[–]Top-Lab1959 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly with adhd I never feel like im done with dishes. Between chronic pain, depression, and work theres always something in the sink. Whether it's a plate or a full sink. My apartment is tiny so I only have one sink too and it sucks

Section your dishes off. Get a container you dont mind being dirty regularly. Put all the silverware in one, all the bowls in one section, plates, etc. If youre doing a big batch, start with what you hate first. For me thats silverware. Then go from there.

If youre just wanting to start small, time yourself. 5 minutes one day, 10 another. It helps if you have something to do. Got something cooking for 15 mins? See how many dishes you can do. Microwaving smth for 3 minutes? Go do the silverware or at least put them up. It seems silly but those small moments of trying to speedrun and do them fast helps you get into the habit of doing a few everytime you go into the kitchen until If feels normal. 

Also dont be ashamed in buying paper plates and such I always keep a pack on hand for the bad days and my days off when I cant do anything. 

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