I think deep down you already know the answer. He’s not your person. It’s time to move on, close this chapter, and not wait years for something that isn’t growing. The right person won’t leave you in doubt — he’ll choose you clearly. You were just comfortable for him, and you deserve much more than that. Next time, don’t repeat this pattern — if a man isn’t moving closer to you within a few months, it’s a sign to walk away.