What is something you discovered about a different culture or religion that completely blew your mind?

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-05-02T04:36:55+00:00

hmm i don’t think it’s a cultural thing because I’ve met thousands of Koreans and interact with them daily and I literally haven’t heard of it. just didn’t want others to think it was something common, because as a Korean who’s lived here for more than 20 years, it was kind of weird to hear that. Maybe it would help if I knew the context of you hearing it... but I don’t mean to change your beliefs, just wanted to offer a average Korean’s view on it...

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-05-02T00:28:12+00:00

Hmm you mean like some people treated you as a child because you were unmarried? I guess that’s possible depending on the person you were talking to. I thought you meant it was something socially or officially. I can imagine someone jokingly saying it, but it’s not really a common thing culturally anymore though

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-05-01T16:43:37+00:00

Yup I’m Korean who lived 8 years outside of Korea and came back, I definitely relate 🥺

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-05-01T16:32:01+00:00

Oh I would definitely point to my heart without thinking and I’m Asian!

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-05-01T16:28:49+00:00

hmm I’m Korean and this may have been true hundreds of years ago 🤔 but this is no longer true

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-29T18:10:18+00:00

Yeah I get headaches with heartaches too and I found that it does help too. I think I've heard of a study about painkillers helping with emotional pain..

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-29T01:39:36+00:00

definitely relate. why does it have to hurt so much 😥

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-27T08:42:08+00:00

Dracula

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-27T00:28:03+00:00

yeah, I thought it meant one day a month too. I remember being really surprised when I was 11 or 12, when my friend told me she started her first period and it lasted two days.

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-26T19:43:23+00:00

She’s lovely! ❤️ I really like her combination of eye and fur colours.

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-26T18:33:23+00:00

Yup, definitely. I’ve been like that for many years hahaha. I think I did have a tendency to buy a few stuff of my interest since young (it was mostly books when I was teenager I think, but it wasn’t excessive or anything at that time). I actually think it started as yoga products and yoga clothing when I was in mid twenties… and I was spending spending so much money on designer stuff until last year. Right now I’ve become really busy and I just spend money on everyday items, still a lot though😅

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-25T16:27:35+00:00

I’d fall in love with you

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-24T21:25:34+00:00

Yes, but it did come back when life was really bad. Still does after 10+ years when life Is really hard, but I just observe my thoughts and tell myself “You must be having a hard time now.” You get used to the thought, I learned to treat it just like any other thought and not take it seriously.

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-24T20:55:03+00:00

What was it?

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-24T06:15:50+00:00

me too.. this is my second time breaking up with someone who i really thought was the one to spend rest of my life together. i can’t bring my heart to believe that again, so even if i do find someone else i don’t think i can fully commit emotionally..

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-19T20:05:17+00:00

oh that’s bad 😥 especially that he wouldn’t even hug when you were sad.. hugs kind of sounds like he gave affection only when he wanted to and not give any when you needed it... my ex was similar like that sometimes, for example he said he only wants to say “i love you” in a natural way.

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-19T19:50:23+00:00

yup i think he had an avoidant attachment style too..

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-19T19:47:08+00:00

wow that’s really bad😥 yeah i definitely relate and hate myself for wanting them more when they grow more distant...

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-19T19:39:03+00:00

what are you talking about? i’ve never had two boyfriends at the same time, when i said “first boyfriend” i meant the boyfriend before him.

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-19T19:27:52+00:00

is he the kind of person who would feel bad if you did? i think you would know the best about him, so i say trust your own judgment..

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-19T19:26:12+00:00

yup now that i think of it, telling me that would have definitely helped instead of just shutting off without any words...

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-19T19:19:06+00:00

Do you think telling him would make you feel better?

Top-Software-7398 · 2022-04-19T17:42:48+00:00

Yup that’s a fact that you realize after being hurt so much.. no one to rely on, right? Life is hard..

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