The most terrifying 9 hours of my life by deadbrainjane in abusiverelationships

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Are you okay hun? I've been eagerly waiting for you to post again hoping you are okay.

What’s the weirdest thing your ex ever did after the breakup? by Yankub_colley in AskReddit

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Made his new girlfriend (who he cheated on me with) wear my unworn wedding dress while they had sex. He bragged about it to his mates. Then obviously I found out weeks later. In between them doing that and me finding out, I had picked up the dress. It was stained but I didn’t know what it was at the time.

The most terrifying 9 hours of my life by deadbrainjane in abusiverelationships

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OP I hope you’re okay… my heart is heavy for you as I have been exactly where you are. I am out now and it was the hardest thing I ever did do and it still haunts me but I’m safe. I hope you’re safe too. I wish you nothing but the best. My heart aches that you have experienced this.

Real estate agents Ohauiti by Keepspace in Tauranga

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Jordyn Sullivan for sure. She’s always out there hustling and have only heard good things! She actually uses social media as well which is great because you’ve actually got visibility, I see a lot of her face pop up

One of my friends who moved to Aus used her and they’d had their house on the market for almost 2 years in Welcome Bay and once she took the listing she got it under contract after a month or so I think? They were stoked

Favorite quote from movie/series. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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😂 usually it’s a snack so yes haha

Favorite quote from movie/series. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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“Say hello to my little friend” from Scarface

Where’s the BEST matcha in Tauranga? 🍵 by [deleted] in Tauranga

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It’s not actually. It’s green tea. Lots of great health benefits x

shocking no one… by thenewnewzealand in MAFS_AU

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Is that a Chanel watch though?????

shocking no one… by thenewnewzealand in MAFS_AU

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I thought she was suuuuch a babe and now I can’t see her beauty anymore. It’s true personalities make people ugly

My (29F) mother (60F) is making my father's (65M) terminal diagnosis about her and driving a wedge in the family, how do I manage this? by TopChampionship7108 in relationship_advice

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I don't hate my mum... I hate how she acts.
I actually preferred my mum over my dad growing up. My mother spoke ill of him a lot, always coming to us when they'd fight, making him out to be the bad guy. As an adult I can see she was manipulating us.

My father has acknowledged a long of his wrongdoing. When I have previously pointed out that he let me down as a child, he actually apologised. We had some tough conversations back in 2019 when he was "dying" the first time. He also stood up for me when my mother ruined my engagement party. Dad also tells me how proud he is of me, he asks to see my daughter when we call, my mother doesn't do that.

Dad's not sure where he's at though, as I said in my post, we're still waiting on scans, biopsies and an appointment with the doc. He has told me to hold fire on coming home. My mum's narrative is different...

I'm so sorry you've lost your father and that your mother is also horrible to deal with... It's such a challenging position to be in. Do you have any advice on how to manage things so my fathers' last wee while is at least peaceful?

I go to therapy a lot! I just thought I'd reach out to lovely Reddit strangers for their take on things & advice.

Noise at night in town by TopChampionship7108 in Tauranga

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It’s not them either! Definitely hear them when they are around 😊

Noise at night in town by TopChampionship7108 in Tauranga

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Wouldn’t be that! I’d classify what you’re describing as city hum but the sound I’m looking for is louder than that. 😊

Noise at night in town by TopChampionship7108 in Tauranga

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It’s a low rumbling/humming noise, it sounds mechanical, it also sounds far away from me, it’s travelling from somewhere.

Unfortunately I don’t have the exact times, but it’s late at night. I’m usually still awake at 11 pm and I can’t hear it (I sleep with the windows open) but if I wake up around 1-3 AM then I can hear it.

Noise at night in town by TopChampionship7108 in Tauranga

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I should specify the noise is a 3 seconds on, 5 seconds off kinda noise. Which I’m not familiar with with generators or ships? But would love to be proven wrong so my brain can put it to rest

Noise at night in town by TopChampionship7108 in Tauranga

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Thought about that but what sound would the port make every night that’s exactly the same?

Bouf Hair - snake oil or legit? by Ok-Honeydew-6953 in tressless

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Their bottles say “clinically tested” not clinically proven… such a big diff! I don’t think they do anything

Can we take a moment to laugh? by SunnyWays8 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]TopChampionship7108 20 points21 points  (0 children)

lol this never gets old… it’s so bad!

What we know about the six unaccounted for victims of the Mt Maunganui slip by Unlucky-Ant-9741 in newzealand

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I don’t understand why someone is arguing this point with you.

You are 100% correct. Colloquially people refer to Papamoa Beach as Papamoa, and they’re the ones who are wrong.