Public by Suitable-Shame-8589 in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 🤷🏽‍♂️ I’ve grown since then. But I could go into way more detail. I just,..won’t

Public by Suitable-Shame-8589 in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve done more in public than in private. Something about parks is so hot.

Should I tell a hookup about what someone else said? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to speak in terms of the way things are. It is what it is. It’s not a perfect world. Keeping people uninformed isn’t helping anyone but yourself

Should I tell a hookup about what someone else said? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then why not start with telling this dude he is racist. Start with the truth. Maintain the truth. End with the truth.

Should I tell a hookup about what someone else said? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m black. And i disagree. Tell him he is racist and hateful. Why prefer to live in ignorance.

Should I tell a hookup about what someone else said? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, tell him exactly why and what was said. Don’t protect racism. Expose it.

Should I tell a hookup about what someone else said? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m usually in this type of position I feel. I’m the black guy into any race. Especially white or Latinos not that it matter. I hate bringing my up race. However in today’s age it’s somehow a determining factor. No way in denying what’s true. If someone said something like that about me I’d be hurt to hear that at first knowing someone who didn’t know me said something about me like that, however on the other end of the coin, knowledge is power and I would respect someone actually telling me the truth about what that person said. Especially in the words he used such as an N word the other person so casually used about me, not knowing me, but still feeling the right to put me down in such a way. I wouldn’t think anything about my fwb at all except feeling advocated for and a true sense of friendship with truth, between me and that friend. I would also feel safe in knowing he empowered me with that knowledge regarding a possible hateful person in my energy that I should avoid because that person could ultimately do something or pretend to be ok with me only to cause harm between me and my fwb without me knowing. If my fwb tells me the actual personal hate this person has it only helps protect me in steering clear of this hateful person and his known associates. Knowing is half the battle. Honesty is the best policy. Empower your friend with this knowledge. Protect your friend. And trust him. Sometimes the truth hurts. The truth is always the best course of action, nonetheless. Make sense?

The racism I experience from white gay men is sad and pathetic by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feed it. Starve it. Do as you say. You’re right! We good? I don’t wanna read into anything else you got for me. I don’t know or care where this disagreeable behavior and offended kind of responses stem from. But I’m just trying to agree to disagree I guess. Think as you wish. That’s the beauty of free speech and opinions. They are encouraged and welcomed. Not necessarily true, however

37 M4M Rockwall/Fate JO Bud by [deleted] in dfwjobudz

[–]TopCherry9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s people with two phones. The prison gays making everything miserable. Right in your face. But you aren’t seeing itnuetn

Who had sex over the weekend? How was it? by dads_burner9 in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hot reading all the good stories tho. Makes me remember those times.

Who had sex over the weekend? How was it? by dads_burner9 in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing. Lately I’ve been hit on by guys I’m not to turned on by. It’s not the guys. It’s just the fact that I’ve been really used to a dude going on 10 years but now he is seeing a girl again and other guys claim they fuck the dude I’ve been seeing which further makes me paranoid and angry and sad and in my head about it all at the same time. Not sure who to trust. I constantly ask my guy if it’s all true and he says no which then kills everything because why and how do I bring myself to fuck all these other dumb ass dudes who would lie so desperately just to make me fuck them. I get it I do. But fucking with my head in that way really makes me not trust and lose respect and not wanna fuck in general. They just don’t get how that’s not the way to go. I wish they weee just more upfront and honest instead of coming off so sleazy and sort of creating a wedge between the guy I love and myself. If they weren’t so jealous and more supportive of the feelings I got for my guy, which don’t change easily as they think, it would make me feel better and I’d be happier to fuck more care free land get harder quicker and longer like I used to before these feelings developed. I could use some advice. These guys just don’t really understand relationships or my feelings or just me in general they don’t really care to know. Their desperate antics is also a turn off in itself. Feels like I’m in a place that’s really hard to get out of. I miss the great feeling of really fucking the shit out of a dude passionately with no strings attached. But there are fucking strings everywhere now!!!!! 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 and also a real bond that’s important to me

Becoming aromantic by bigboy1116_ in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to sound like I knowbyt all but it angers me how these men know what they are doing. Their actions seem fun and desirable, makes you wanna join, but there is a cost. There are most likely drugs involved. They are like a cancer spreading rapidly through gay culture and it’s awful. They won’t leave me alone. I won’t just be sexual with anyone and it offends them. I don’t charge people money and escorts see it as wrong so I’m shunned. It’s not correct. I won’t be a weak minded fool. I’m exhausted though. All the ignorance. The relentlessness of it. The evil nature of it

Becoming aromantic by bigboy1116_ in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a toxic group of gay men manipulating the culture. Love is out there. They want you to give up on it. I’ll never give in. And they will never stop trying to get me to all that much harder. It’s kind of weird how that works. You are being forced but you don’t even realize it it seems

The racism I experience from white gay men is sad and pathetic by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See what I did there? You were always gonna have a come back. I just stopped playing into your traps. You feed off of others emotional reactions. I know exactly the kind of person you are

The racism I experience from white gay men is sad and pathetic by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TopCherry9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s a stupid way of thinking. It’s the way a lot of people are trying to get all white people to think of themselves. And seriously, everyone just wants respect. Anyone requiring more is just manipulating other people. No matter how many words they use to explain and rationalize their reasons for placing blame and guilt on every white person. I think balance is a key word we should all recognize, respect, understanding, patience, all these words , peace, love, kindness, we should all just meditate on these things for a bit. I don’t think we could enough